What is worst: if your girlfriend had a lot of sex partners or gave a lot of men a blowjob?

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I admit that before I met my boyfriend, I was pretty busy enjoying the single life and having no strings attached. I have at about an equal amount of guys I went all the way with as guys I only gave a blowjob. I guess it's because I worked at a bar and every now and then went to the toilet with a guy, and a blowjob is much easier to do quickly than going all the way on a toilet. Also I didn't have to worry about condoms and guys could just come in my mouth instead of having all the pregnancy/std worries and guys nagging about "really feeling it".

We don't really talk about our sexual past but I notice he tries to get some info out of me. And it seems he has a harder time with the guys I gave just a blowjob than the ones I had sex with. The ones I had sex with more often, seem to annoy him the least.

Why is it like this? And how do you guys feel about it? Is it worst if your girlfriend gave a lot of men a blowjob, or if she slept with a lot of men?

EyeAmNiceGirl · Accepted Answer

I really don't think it matters a whole lot. The only real question is if she did those things once. After the first time, it's just details. I mean, if she has had another guy's penis in her mouth, why does it matter if she had a second penis in her mouth? Either way, you are kissing a mouth that has had another guy's cum in it. Same goes for the vagina. Once the first penis goes in, getting a second penis later on doesn't really change the status any.

I think the blowjobs bother him more because he sticks his tongue in your mouth where those other guy's cum has been. I'm guessing most of the guys you had sex with wore a condom and therefore didn't actually cum inside you.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Both are equally disgusting. I wouldn't date a female who did either so freely.

A person can enjoy the single life without being a cum sponge for random strangers.

He likely is more disgusted by your oral bacteria bucket because he has to kiss it, his dick doesn't care as much about your other bacteria buckets.

AustinMan · Accepted Answer

When it comes to sexual history, don't ask and damn sure don't tell.

NyfikenSyd · Answer

It honestly doesn't matter as long as she doesn't keep doing it after we start dating.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Either... I don't give a damn.

Creepazoid · Answer

Lol they are both equally bad

UncleBumbleF_K · Answer

There's no or here. Both are worst. Not comparable.

Karl1982 · Answer

Well, every time he kisses you, he kisses all those dicks... In his mind.

ReEeEeEeE24 · Answer

Blowjobs with other men can put off your boyfriend from kissing you, and also you can get oral stds, especially if there was semen

Jamie05rhs · Answer

What's the difference?

okeydoke · Answer

I'm very sex positive so am completely indifferent to how many people partners of mine have had sexual relations with.

HeyMikie · Answer

The past doesn't matter. Only the present does. If you are faithful to your present lover, the past is irrelevant.

Sharkstealth · Answer

I think you should give me a blowjob also.

COMMODOREII · Answer

What's worse is a woman who judges and persecutes other women for their choices in life.

Wewladdy · Answer

Both are disgusting and would make me cut her off immediately. Wouldn't even be friends with a slut who can't connect pair bond anymore and has that much baggage.

DanOh2018 · Answer

If she is healthy then it wouldn't bother me. I can't say women shouldn't enjoy sex and new partners if I enjoy that myself. Just get tested regularly and try to be safe.

koifish · Answer

I don't think it's bad the past is the past

nudeNhorny · Answer

A lot of sex partners, because there is a chance she would feel a little loose for me down there, on the other hands a lot of blowjobs doesn't bother me that much.