My boyfriend doesn't want to do phone sex anymore? or sex in general?

my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 15 months and recently i caught him watching porn and girls-- which i don't mind if my boyfriend watches porn but the fact that he lied to me that he didn't watch it made me feel sick. I stopped him from watching those and i explained to him that i feel insecure now since he's been watching these videos when he said no other person especially girls mean shit to him. anyway since i felt insecure, and i told him about it, ever since then he didn't want to do that phone sex or even sex in person at all. this started happening last week to now and he said that he just doesn't want to do it because it's "his choice" and that he doesn't "feel like it" yet before i found out about his porn addiction and watching girls he didn't want to do anything. like he is doing shorter texts and he doesn't really say "i love you" anymore. ever since he started working (he's 18, started a month ago) he doesn't really talk to me or be affectionate anymore and lately he's been lying saying he's been talking to girls to make me jealous. i want to be with him but i really just don't know what to do anymore
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  • ITs over girl

    He has always done that and there might be another girl. YOur making him stop killed his sex drive for you. He wants his cake and to eat it also. Go find the man who only wants you

    • what if we both want to still be together? how can i fix that

    • i also check his phone every time i see him and i don't see any text messages or anything from any other girl and he hasn't watched anything

    • IT can't be fixed cause the damage is done and he won't ever stop wanting porn. Its like the girl who had her boyfriend eat her ass. Now all she sees is his tongue inside her ass when she kisses him.

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  • It sounds like y'all aren't really compatible. Also like he's intentionally being a jerk, and you shouldn't just bend over and take that.

    • yeah we are kinda opposite haha, we both been through a lot of stuff but we both don't want to leave the relationship and if we did, it would be on and off between us

    • How old are you both?

    • i'm 16, he's 18

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  • Wow that sucks

  • He is getting sex from somewhere else

  • There might be another girl, it doesn't make sense...

    • that's what i thought but i always check his phone and there's nobody and also he hasn't been on social media for months since i took it away.

    • Maybe when ur not around. Also maybe he's careful and deletes every evidence. Add me

    • but how? i check his contacts, his messages, everything. he has a horrible memory and he couldn't be cheating unless it's at work.

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  • He fucks you?

  • Get someone else to have phone sex with lol