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I "play" with my boyfriends mates?

i'm 18 and i live with my 26 year old boyfriend and his 2 mates ranging in age from 21 to 24, all males. i only have full penetrative sex with my boyfriend but if he's busy im allowed to "play" with the others but their dick isn't allowed to go all the way in. they're all single. is this bad? is it normal? i dont mind and it isn't hurting anyone. and how can i tell or show my boyfriend that i want full sex with the others? *please no hate* this is my life.
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  • Cool. A few questions for you: When you "play" with your bfs mates, what all do you do with them? Like do they go down on you and make you cum? Do you suck their dicks, or is that part of what's not allowed to go all the way in? Do you stroke them off or titty fuck them then? How do they get released? Or do you make them jack themselves off?

    Does your boyfriend know you play with his mates? Does he like it? Does he watch? Does he fuck you in front of them?

    Just curious as to your arrangement--it sounds interesting!

    • Dm me?

  • " im allowed to "play" with the others but their dick isn't allowed to go all the way in."
    So they can go in, just not all the way. How far in is allowed? There is no point in giving a certain amount. It is in or it isn't. You want to fuck all of them, and your guy seems to be letting you.
    Answer to your question: it is not normal, and whether it is bad is up to your interpretation.

    • They can fuck me but they can't cum in me

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  • I would assume that the majority of relationships would not agree with that at all. I think most would just consider that as cheating. In your case , if their already touching you with their dicks I dont see a difference going all the way in. just talk with your boyfriend about it , if he's already okay with "play" Im sure you can talk him into being okay with full.

  • Then... you'll basically have three boyfriends
    Though doing that with two guys other than ur boyfriend is already weird.

    But your boyfriend still have to be somewhat special with that over them
    Cuz.. well because he's your boyfriend.
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    Except if you don't care and just wanna do it with the three of them then... go for it ig
    As u said it's your life

  • I love all ur questions thanks for adding

  • Sounds like someone's been telling you pork pies about a man not putting his cock in all the way being acceptable. Any sexual activity between 2 people where at least one of them has a partner can be defined as cheating.

    If that's what these lads are saying there trying to take advantage, if your boyfriend is saying this I'd be asking who he's not gone all the way into?

  • if you are already allowed to play with them then maybe your boyfriend just needs an extra little push to be ok with you fucking the other guys too. maybe you could suggest a night in and a few drinks

  • If they've been inside of you at all technically you've already had sex with them so you might as well do it when you feel like it

  • Its wonderful. Keep going

  • That's a messed up relationship.

  • I think it's hot as long as everyone has good communication and is on the same page.
    Just have open and honest communication about what you want with your partner.

  • Just ask him (:

  • I’m not touching swinger fantasies with a ten foot pole..
    all I can imagine reading this is a girlfriend coming up to her boyfriend “ hi babe, how’s your day been? by the way I am tired of your friends just stroking their cocks on my clit and I want to go to the next level and gangfuck all of your friends while you watch”
    No but seriously, how would you feel if the tables were turned?

  • Wow i would have loved this in my 20s.

  • No hate projecting from my direction whatsoever. How long has your boyfriend been allowing you to do this with his mates?

    • A couple of months after we got together, but I've known them basically my whole life

    • Are you hoping he will let all of them fuck you at the same time

    • Yes i am

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  • I mean if you're all consenting adults I don't see why it's a problem. Sounds like you've already had their dicks in you anyways.

  • If your boyfriend is allowing you to play with the other roommate's then it would seem he's somewhat ok with the" open relationship" concept. So why allow play with others without penetration? Define " PLAY" for me please?

    • blowjobs, eating out, fingering, grinding

    • Sounds like the beginning of a swingers lifestyle. Make a video of you having penetrative sex with one or both of the roommates and see how he reacts. If he allows all the other that should excite him. Its a dangerous step because it could also end the relationship but I bet it won't. Once he sees how you are enjoying yourself, he a should" cum" around!

  • What exactly is the extent of what you are doing with them now?

  • Just say one thing led to another and we didn’t mean for it to happen

  • If you both are cool with it it's not hurting anyone so why not

  • If you both are ok with it, then no problem, no harm in it.

  • I know exactly what you mean, had an ex where I did the same. I got bored of "playing" so just said let's fuck and they were down.

    • Why are you unsure about how he will react?

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