Why do my nipples hurt so much after fooling around? Is this normal?

As I’m sure you could guess, I’m not experienced sexually. My boyfriend and I fooled around for awhile and I let him basically have a free pass at my chest. Now my nipples are soo sore. Is this normal or am I messed up?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Women will be better able to answer this, but I've never heard any women complain about that. Perhaps he was too rough with them and that's why? As far as I know, gentle or even moderate contact should not cause them to be sore afterward. But if he was really rough with them, then I can imagine that would leave you sore afterward. Did anything hurt while he was doing it? If so, that might be what caused the soreness later.

    • There was only a small amount of discomfort at one point. But everything else was very enjoyable 😅

    • Yeah, from what I've been told it usually is enjoyable and doesn't cause any soreness later, but I think being too rough with them or too much contact for too long can make them sore. Women that are breastfeeding sometimes have problems with soreness just because of too much contact. So if he was playing with them for a long time pretty much non-stop that could be what caused it.

  • Your nipples became erect and they may have been abraded by massage or dried out by saliva.
    Use a little fragrance free lotion on them before sexual relations.

    • That makes sense. It was a pretty long time. Thank you so much for the tip!

Most Helpful Girl

  • What did he do bite them off? Maybe he bit or rubbed them too hard and irritated them

    • He got a little rough at one point and I stopped him. But nothing else so that’s why I was confused 🙂

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  • It's normal. I'm guessing he played with them, a lot?

  • Probably he went a little too rough on them?

  • This is pretty normal depending on what happened. It'll pass, just tell him to be more gentle next time 😂

  • Sounds good to me. Mine get sore when she fools with them

  • Maybe he was a bit rough

  • Depends what he did, if he was to ruff in sucking or even biting then yeah that happens

  • Your nipples are sore because siliva will dry them out and sucking, tweaking, and pulling on them will cause the skin to crack.