Why does being embarrassed turn me on?

Not humiliation and stuff, that turns me off. But if I'm with my boyfriend and we talk about personal fantasies, especially when I tell him to talk dirty to me or spank me I get red and really embarrassed, but at the same time so turned on... Why?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I didn't quite understand the question: why are you embarrassed or why are you sexually aroused? I think you meant none of that and you wanted to hear something like: Embarrassment heightens even more your feelings of lust. Use this info for acheiving great orgasms you dirty little slut ;;} (Admit it, i turned u on, right?) Try doing it with your boyfriend in places you might get caught. Try a vibrator while you're in a restaurant. Try even french kissing in front of many people, etc.

  • You like the implicit shame. I'm wondering: does the spanking do it more for you?

Most Helpful Girl

  • Because you might be shy about stuff like that you have to get more comfortable with him

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  • Probably because you have all attention focused on your most private fantasies.

  • That's a normal response. Sexual feelings are effective but when they have a tinge of something negative like shame or fear or pain it can make a really powerful cocktail

  • You're giving up control of your thoughts and feelings...

  • Beacuse, yiur inner desire might want him tk be the same boyfriend who has hos spanked matks on your ass...

  • Cool 😎

  • Being embarrassed doesn't turn you on. Being turned on embarrasses you. You have the cause and effect backward.

  • Because it's tabboo

  • cause it's normal

    women tend to like that sort of thing

    why you feel the need to share it with us, i dk

  • Are you submissive?