My husband and i love each other very much, i can't see living a life without him. We have 3 children and everything is going good for us, and he is great in bed. So why do i have urges? Please not that These urges has not been put into action! I have very high sex drive and he does get me off a lot. Maybe its the thrill? Maybe its something new? I honestly and truthfully have no idea where this came from or why these urges happen. I am seeing a therapist and even she doesn't know. I love my husband and i dont want to hurt him nor leave him. How do i stop these urges? Am i the only one? I am so embarassed and ashamed.