Is my boyfriend selfish during sex?

So my boyfriend wants to have sex all of the time. Like 5 times a day which I think is a bit excessive. But when we have sex it always consists of me going down on him and after we have sex immediately and then he finishes and that's it. He rarely touches me down there to get me aroused and he never goes down on me either. He only touches my breasts and that's it. The sex never changes. Is he selfish?
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  • I think it's selfish but probably because he doesn't know better.

    You should ask him to go down on you, if he refuses then you shouldn't be required to go down on him. It's honestly that simple.

    Of course he wants sex often, having an orgasm feels great. Giving him foreplay before sex, is why he can climax so fast. He should be doing that for you, so you can reach a climax together.

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  • Yes. An unselfish lover will want to make sure you are satisfied sexually too and will take the time to learn how to get you there. This guy is just using you to satisfy his sexual urges. Have an adult conversation with him about it and then give him a chance to up his game. If he doesn’t, then he doesn’t really care about you and you should move on.

  • he is VERY selfish. ugh i can't imagine sleeping with someone who i choose to share my body with just to use me for his own pleasure. you should talk to him about it.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Sounds pretty selfish. When I was your age I was so worried I'd never her more than one shot at sex with anyone I tried everything I could to satisfy my partner first and then do my thing.

    Have you talked to him about it? If you haven't yet, frame it as a challenge for him "bet you can't make me cum".

  • He has a lot to learn. Young guys want sex all the time but you have to let them know you need and deserve some orgasms also. Teach him how to give you oral. Mix things up when you can. Do you ever go for round 2 or 3?

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  • He is being monstrously selfish.

  • You lame ass

    • This dumb ass troll's stories are so fake. A new story every day or the year. How do you block these blockheads?

  • That is selfish, but maybe he just needs retraining.

  • Yes he is.. I just looked up the word selfish and there was a picture of him.

  • Yes hunny find someone new that will make you feel so sexy and amazing

    • 100% every girl deserves to be spoiled with attention and it is her boyfriend duty to make her come 👍

    • Exactly

  • I think thats common with younger men, there is no manual on sex so i think a lot of guys think it starts and ends with them... so i won't say selfish... more misinformed... try to teach him what you like and want from sex

  • YOUR NOT SELFISH BUT YOU ARE STUPID FOR ALLOWING HIM TO DO ANYTHING HE WANTS TO YOU BUT YOU GET NOTING IN RETURN BUT THEN THAT IS YOUR FAULT FOR BEING A SLUT

  • Yeah he’s terrible. I’ve had sex with young guys and virgins who were actually really good in bed and generous lovers so I wouldn’t settle for that crap if I were you.

  • Do you really have to ask this? YES, In a big way. What a fucking moron. He's treating you like a sex doll.

  • He is very definitely very selfish, and also wants sex too much. How often should be a shared decision, not just as often as he wants it.

  • It's about give and take. If one is giving or taking more, then it's out of balance.

  • You suck his dick 5 times a day and he does nothing for you? What do you think?

    • Best response by a mile :)

  • Extremely!!

  • Extremely selfish. Indescribably so.

  • Have you talked to him about this? Sex should be mutually enjoyable. If he won't take better care of you then can stay or leave and look for a more considerate partner.

  • sounds like he needs to learn some foreplay skills.

    tell him no sex unless he can get you to orgasm at least once. each time you have sex together.

    or you'll leave him with blue balls.

  • Terminally selfish. You are not a therapist. Don't try to fix this. He is displaying his nature. Set him and yourself free.

  • Yes, abnormally so.

  • He's badly selfish. And I think he doesn't respect you and doesn't try to make you happy and satisfied

  • Guys, if this is you take a good long look In the mirror and smack yourself, show how much you love your girl during sex

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