Do your partner's kinks and fetishes rub off on you?

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

I think my girlfriend's preferences are rubbing off on me and I don't think it's a bad thing honestly. She's also making me discover things I didn't use to think I would enjoy.
What about you?

[OlderAndWiser]

Sometimes, we hold ourselves back with inhibitions, fears, and biases, and we refuse to explore things that may be quite enjoyable. When I was a child, my friends and I were all certain that we would contract horrible diseases if we dared to kiss a girl on the lips! I am SO grateful that I overcame that fear, and that I subsequently overcame many others fears and inhibitions. What you are experiencing is growing together in what seems to be a healthy relationship. I am glad for you!

[OlderAndWiser]

Thanks for MHO!

[ask4any]

Now your getting it. Proud of you son! However I am of the firm belief that it is my kinks, fetishes, nueroticas that rub off.

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

I don't have any but I think it's a good thing I'm getting into hers. She's also encouraging me to come out with mine or come up with new ideas.

[ask4any]

My GOD, can I marry her? Just kidding!

[ask4any]

You have got yourself a gem buddy. Get as nasty and kinky as you need to be.

[ask4any]

Don't take my word for it. Read other's posts on this. Well, it is your question so I'm sure you have.

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

I know we can have something beautiful if I manage to open up more and be more confident. She jokingly said I always seemed a pervert in denial to her back in high school, so now I have to spill her the beans so to say.

[ask4any]

Spill away. Busch's Beans? Or no bush?

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

In the sense that she thinks I'm embarassed about my preferences and not sharing them

[SexyAshh]

My first friends with benefits was actually the one who changed the game for me, and now im probably even weirder then him at this point.

They definatly do though👍👍

[Porcelaine]

Haha I knew if you experimented a little sex would become more enjoyable

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

I guess her encouraging attitude to it it's what is making me getting into it!

[joeshi]

I’m prolly the only one, but I’m wondering what did she get you into?

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

Extreme roleplay

[joeshi]

For example? I’m really just curious

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

Mostly sadomasochism and re-enactment of horror movies scenes, with her as the aggressor and me as the victim so to say.

[joeshi]

Like she will be the killer and you will be the person that runs away? I’m trying to understand this

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

Kind of. Without going in too many details, it's one of the games we do.

[joeshi]

I don't know i would be scared if there was a killer after me haha

[MissKittyz]

Oh, yes it did. My fiancé is extremely wild in bed and into a lot of things I wasn't interested in at all in the past. But I am very open to trying new things and I've honestly enjoyed a lot of a new things we've tried together :) definetely makes sex super fun, very pleasurable and different each time. I've honestly have a way better sex life with him than I've ever had in the past. and now, I'm as wild as him lol

[MotherEarth2020]

Most definitely! My hubby is into bondage, role-playing, butt play and many other things. I had never really experienced most of those things in the past. Now it's a normal part of our sexual relationship.

[JackSmy]

That is the best part of any relationship!! They share their favorites, and you share yours!!
Oh, but what if hers are better, or more 'Kinky' than yours? Are you jealous, or just play along and learn the joy?

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

I don't really have any so that's why I go along with hers so easily

[spartan55]

Hopefully.

[Paulaanderson]

Yes Def yes. Tho I loved sex in my teens 20s and did various things, after marriage got into role play, light bondage, Drssing up more. Its more of daring me to do things as well and daring him.

[Kaneki05]

Of course this tends to happen. It's a sort of mirroring everyone has. More you spend time with them you pick up things could be as small as the way you say hi and now say hey instead without noticing. Or it can be big like kinks.

With my personailty disorder this is much more extrem we tend to mirror more than normal.

[AleenaAggrawal]

Yes, it did. Even though it was weird af at first. I guess I am open minded and genuinely have gone to great lengths coz I want him happy. ♥️

[ADFSDF1996]

I hope mine’s rub off on her.

[Ronald_25]

@Apple1996, have they rubbed off on you or have they brought out your own buried kinks?

[Apple1996]

I'm already extremely kinky and into everything so whatever your kinks are I'm willing to tryy

[Browser101]

Hmmmm, “anything” huh? 🤔

[Apple1996]

@Browser101 yess anything😆

[Browser101]

Wow, that’s a tal order chick!

[Ronald_25]

Good, because I am into ALL kinks except humiliation and spitting 👍🏼

[Apple1996]

But you have to spit on my pussy that is so hot!

[Ronald_25]

Lol, yes Lily, I shall do as you wish.

[humanearth]

Thats how Crossdressing got started with me. I once dated a girl that was into crossdressing men for sexual role play.

Never looked back. It became my curse and blessing at the same time.

Thank God my wife accepts it and enjoys it with me. Otherwise... I might end up down right miserable.

By the way. She knew about it. Way before we became serious with each other.

So you guys that are into CDing. Just come out and tell the women. Before you become serious with them. It works out better than you trying to hide it.

[Doodabeat]

Kinks rub off rather easily, in a shallow emotional sense, by simply giving attention/seeking attention from people who have them. A kink is an abnormal connection. Kinks are not present in normal human evolutionary biology. It's best to avoid people who are pleasured by the pain of others unless you want to adopt a bad sense of humor.

[Doodabeat]

A sense of humor that is incongruent with how you honestly feel.

[copperscene]

Yes and I know I've had the same effect on some of my partners

[ashley1996]

Oh yes they certainly have lol

[Jackieboi]

Ofc the more you do it the more good memories you create around it. I mean at least they should be good memories otherwise i dont know wtf do it🙂

[Massageman]

My hooker is helping with the fetish part.

[newkinkboy1818]

Same and loving it

[JKingOff]

No, they weird me the hell out! Why does she want me to tie her down and hit her? That sounds so painful!!! Plus she moans. Why does she moan if she's in pain? I'm so confused...

[lucas262]

A more likely scenario is i rub off on her, no pun intended.

I, d take her out on all these crazy role playing adventures and take it as far as we could.

[OfDeath]

No I don't think so