Is sex better than masturbation?

Question

I like masturbating but is sex better? I am hoping to have sex for the first time tomorrow

UnknownReflection · Accepted Answer

I would say definitely.

Masturbation is pleasing and might cover the sexual needs but making an intimacy with the opposite gender is a different phenomena. Our subconscious do realize that. The sense of someone else being present, their fragrance, their warmth, their touch, the interaction between two people makes a different impact on our body and mind both. Our hormonal production and reaction happens entirely different by the influence of a different environment from masturbating alone and having a sexual intimacy with another human being that you're attracted to. It's two different stage of emotional and sexual establishment which surely will result in a different feeling.

In terms of first sex, there are other factors which you need to pay attention to.

-You need to make sure the flow of the sex would go slow and carefully. Because you need to take your time and study each other's body, you need to follow your body's desires and rhythms in order reassure that you won't hurt yourself by pursuing intercourse too fast and too bold. It's your first time, you need to allow your body to learn how to have intercourse, allowing your body to get used to the interaction.

-Make sure you are relaxed and feeling comfortable. Stress, distress and anxiety will kill the joy. You need to be relaxed so your muscles would be loos and comfy. That includes your genitalia. You need to take your time to make sure your body is fully into the right rhythm. Otherwise, the chances of the intercourse happens to be rough, dry and hurtful will rises.

-You also need to understand every woman come with different anatomy. The Cervix is one of the key anatomy factors. Some women experience painful intercourse due their cervix being hit uncomfortably. This can be taken care of and realized by patience and pursuing the sex slowly and attentively.

-I'd advise to take foreplay very seriously. Foreplay is a catalyst to put you in the right mood and prepares your body. For the start of your sexual journey, you need to be extra-careful in my opinion. You need to practice your body via proper foreplay so your body could get the vibe and feel comfy pursuing an actual intercourse without being irritated.

Random note: You might feel a little irritation on your genitalia or dryness on the vaginal area. A little of such feelings are normal during two conditions 1. First and early sexual interactions and 2. Too much intercourse in short period of time.

And most importantly above all, take protection very seriously.

Sex is better than masturbation but if you want to get all the pleasure you can get, you need to follow some steps to make sure you, your mind and body are in harmony to earn the joy you're after and deserve to get empty of discomfort, pain and irritation.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It depends if your guy is good at sex. If the dude loves you and cares he will make love to you and make you cum so much that it will be way better than masturbation. If he puts it in and thrusts for two minutes until he comes and is done than you are destined to a life of misery lol. Unfortunately many guys do not know how to "make love" and do not care, they're worthless. If a dude doesn't satisfy you dump him right away, life is too short to not be loved honey.

mistixs · Accepted Answer

I'm a virgin, but according to my polls, the consensus is that masturbation is equally or more pleasurable compared to casual sex, but it's much less pleasurable than sex with a partner that you love.

Isabella1100 · Accepted Answer

I 100% prefer sex unless they really have no clue what they’re doing down there

ChronicThinker · Accepted Answer

Sex is going to be better if you have a good sexual partner.

markscott · Answer

Sex is much, much better than masturbation.

BlacklightShade · Answer

Masturbation is better if you masturbate with someone’s penis.

InfobotsMom · Answer

There is far more anticipation and excitement involved in someone else touching you because you can't expect it as accurately as when you touch yourself. Every sense is heightened when someone else takes control.

WhiteShoulder · Answer

I prefer sex, but it probably won’t be that great the first time. It gets a lot better.

zaharaa · Answer

honey, you dont even know. you're going to love every second of it

reptocarl · Answer

Fuck yes it is

oldguystillhasit · Answer

Yes it is, but don't be disappointed if your first time isn't that great. There is usually a little bit of "clumsiness" the first time. Each time gets better & better.

Annie12234 · Answer

Yes totally 💯

Hibana · Answer

Yes Sex is better, when someone you like touch and give you pleasure its so good

genericname85 · Answer

not generally, not. bad sex can be worse than masturbation.

kamalravi25 · Answer

First time u might not like it compared to masturbation. But if u guide ur partner well n he listens you. Then sure u will fell better pleasure than masturbation.