Is deepthroating unfair to girls as it means they suffer for guys pleasure?

[neilsmart]

[abc3643]

Girls should not have to deepthroat...

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A big reason that the male orgasm happens (best) from head is when there is a very steady rhythm stimulating the tip. "Deep throating" is not such a big deal because all that does is simulate the experience of being in the warm wet snug vagina. During intercourse, it is the tip being touched and stimulated that causes excitement and orgasm.

Keep in mind, all the best BJs are also a bit of a hand job as well so don't be afraid to give your mouth a break.

And don't forget the balls! They get lonely and are STARVING for female attention. So, sometimes use your fingers or hand such as cupping or teasing testicles or the penis.

Google "Fellucia Blow" and STUDY those videos. Those women are experts at fellatio and genuinely love it. The sensuous BJ really is best both for the guy and for the woman. Watch and notice how easily they do it yet aren't choking or getting sick. And watch how they switch between mouth and fingers.

Also, look into videos for:

A) lingam massage (tantric massage for the male genitalia)
B) yoni massage (tantric massage for the female genitalia - he should return the favor).

That said, consider studying good hand-job videos. All you then have to do is imagine doing what the woman is doing with her hands and fingers, but instead replace with lips, tongue, and mouth.
I'd upload a video, but it is not safe for G@G. PM if you want the links to two such videos.

[AustinMan]

I don't see it that way. They are with me of their own volition and I always have a long talk with her before we have sex. I'm really kinky and quite large but I want her to take it all the way down. They've all said yes and using a variety of incentives, they make it happen. Fairness isn't even in the equation. I"m a kinky, dominant lover and if they aren't willing to suffer at my hand, they know not to have sex with me.

[vxiiiv]

Every girl is different. For some of us, part of the point of sex is to have an extreme experience. Throating is one of those. So it can be uncomfortable and pleasurable at the same time. I wouldn't call it suffering. But if someone feels that way, and they get pressured into doing it, that would be unfair. It is all about the people involved and their dynamic.

[msfuntastic]

Exactly. Not every sexual encounter is always going to be about pleasure. Sometimes it can be more so pain, and that's not necessarily a bad thing if you know what you're getting into and you can handle some degrees of it. For some of us it's possible to find enjoyment in that just as well as pleasure.

[Anonymous]

Yes, but that is the way women are. They do whatever men say, they aren't forced to, they choose to let men have the advantage over them so they can't complain.

[LoU_Hades]

see it as protein rich food supply instead of suffering

[nimmouser]

But that food supply shouldn't be shoved deep inside the throat...

[boggboss]

Lol it's not fair or unfair just another sexual act some enjoy doing and others don't

[Dargil]

Yes, I think it is.

[neilsmart]

why is that?

[Dargil]

The question answered that. They suffer for guys pleasure?

[Joseph210]

You girls might suffer phisically but you also enjoy mentally since you are being dominated.
I always make her suffer, even she has no gag reflex I pinch her nose to restrict her breathing

[neilsmart]

thats dominant lol - boys will be boys

[IlyaTheImpaler]

didn't hear her complain
oh wait 😂

[HighHithom]

I won't make a girl do it. But so far they've wanted and enjoyed it. I don't really get how they'd suffer?

[Oram52]

What makes you think girls don't enjoy it? :)

[neilsmart]

i do but some girls might not

[buttcrackjoe]

Whats unfair is having to look at a popped collared pink polo douche

[neilsmart]

guys look hot with their collar up

[bangyourhead]

It's not unfair if they agree to do it. I've gotten cricks in my neck from eating pussy.

[okeydoke]

Some women really enjoy it. So for those who do, no.

[Browser101]

No, cause you girls love that shit! You wouldn’t allow it if you didn’t like it! No blowjob is forced

[motownplayer2000]

No, because it's a choice. They choose to do it. They dont have too

[swettannie]

no it's not

[Belfast34]

I've yet to find a girl who can deepthroat me.

[COMMODOREII]

I think it's very unfair but there are a lot of things women are subjected to by men who degrade them and persecute them that are also unfair.

[BeHappy1985]

You can always say no. Also not all girls have the gag reflex or feel pain deepthroating. They just look like they're in pain because they lack air.

[neilsmart]

its not painful lol - it just chokes our throat

[GreenGold1992]

some of them enjoy it

[red_knight]

Get revenge by face sitting us, we won't mind

[DanOh2018]

I never ask for it. Some women just like to.

[johnieohm]

some women enjoy it, not mentioning any names *cough* *cough*, so this "suffer" is nof accurate. they purposely do it for the guys pleasure regardless. but to the women that can't deepthroat it is unfair cause how can they compete with someone who has head skills like that

[neilsmart]

do you think some girls should be let off?

[johnieohm]

let off? like everyone deserves someone regardless and just giving head shouldn't be the core of the relationship