Do guys always moan when they cum during sex?

My boyfriend usually moans and yells when he is cumming so that's how I can tell. But sometimes, he stays quiet but then pulls out and I feel the cum run out of me. And guys I've had sex with in past haven't really made noise when they came either, but they all claimed to have came.. did they actually cum even though they didn't moan or anything when it was coming out? I understand that most guys dont moan during sex like girls do, but I thought they at least made sounds while they are actually having an orgasm?
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  • Personally I'm not very vocal during sex I put it down to growing up masturbating and not wanting to be caught at it so I was as quiet as possible.
    It's not a measure of how much we are enjoying things but even I will moan under extreme circumstances e. g. when edging for extended periods of time

  • I used to ALWAYS be quiet when I came until I got my future ex-fiancé and we lived alone together, then, it didn't matter how much noise I made and I WOULD moan a bit but, sometimes, it feels so fucking god damn good, I just can't HELP but start laughing!!

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  • It really depends on the guy, a lot of us are silent because we were almost trained to be, growing up masturbating. We're used to keeping quite haha. Some break this habit, others don't.

    • If a guy doesn't even moan when he cums with me, does this mean he didn't cum with me or that it wasn't good?

    • Nope, that just means he was conditioned or is used to being quiet. It can be absolutely mind blowing and some guys will still be silent

  • Depends on the intensity of the orgasm.

    • So the only guy that has made noise when he cums with me is my boyfriend and he doesn't moan everytime.. and the guys I've been with in the past didn't moan at all.. does that mean the other guys didn't actually or that the orgasm wasn't very good?

    • Not necessarily. Some guys are just quiet. And the lack of moaning doesn't mean the orgasm wasn't good. Even when I don't moan, the orgasm is good, but when I do it's just more intense. The best way to tell with if the orgasm isn't very good is to look at his face. If it wasn't he'll have a disappointed face, probably.

    • How could a guys orgasm be disappointing? I'm just curious. I'm trying not be disappointing. I always let guys cum inside me or wherever they want. How could an orgasm not be good for a guy?

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  • It's natural

  • Nope im quiet

  • I moan quietly and loudly too. I think we are brought up believing that sex is taboo and that any form of it wrong to publibly announce it or to enjoy it. So because of that we try to supress our pleasures instead of enjoying ourselves. That's why we moan quietly.

  • I usually bite my girlfriend's shoulder when I cum, but not always. I don't think there's a need for a guy to make sounds or something to cum. It's just what they sometimes do.

  • Yeah I grunt a lot. Depends on the sex also. With the right girl I moan during the sex.

    • If a guy doesn't even moan when he cums, does this mean he didn't cum good enough with me?

    • Nah. I don't moan every single time I cum. Don't be so insecure

    • You don't moan everytime you cum during sex or just by yourself?

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  • I'm pretty loud during sex tbh