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My boyfriend makes fun of my "weird" fetish?

So I have a fetish that is rather strange and foreign to most people so I don't expect you to fully understand it, but I hope that you try to be open minded and respectful. So my boyfriend and I have been having sex for a couple of years now. About a year ago, we were having some wild and fun sex and we were both so turned on. Out of no where I had the STRONG urge to urinate and I asked him if I could urinate. He said yes, "Go ahead" and pulled out his penis. I looked at him and was like "no I meant I want to urinate on you." He thought it was so hot and let me and we have been doing it ever since. I have this huge fantasy of letting a man stand over me and urinate on my long hair while I feel his warm urine runnning down my scalp and back so I thought why not ask my boy friend to do it for me?! He got so freaked out by it and started to make some real mean and nasty comments He said I was weird and my behavior was abnormal and I need psychological help. I told him "well if there is something wrong with me then there's something wrong with you because you let me urinate on you" and sometimes he even drinks it Haha. So who has the real problem, if there even is one, which I don't think there is. He says it's different because when I urinate on him, it reminds him of "squirting"" which he LOVES but I can't do so that's why his behavior is "normal." I am pretty educated in psychology and human sexual behavior so I know that sexuality is very complex and different for every one. I don't know why he is reacting this way to my request? WHat do you all think? P.S He is a very obsessive and controlling guy!
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Most Helpful Guys

  • He may think he's demeaning you and when he urinates on you it some how makes you more of a bitch and less of a significant other. I myself have a bit of this fetish although it has yet to be practically applied. I understand about your fear of ridicule. If you want to look "tentaclerapeforums.com" has a diverse though small community that encompasses every fetish under the sun. You might enjoy the people you meet

    • Thank you :-)

  • You two have a complex -- and wonderfully kinky -- relationship!

    But it seems to work for you... perhaps you're both embarrassed by it, and that's why you each make up excuses. With time, and enough pee, maybe you'll get past it and just admit that you both like it.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I don't think there's a problem here. Except your boyfriend givin nasty jokes about it. You should tell him to stop, if it's really bothering you. Or you could make even nastier jokes about what he does, cause I think what he does is just as abnormal as what you want. don't be ashamed of what you like ;) There are all sorts of people in this world. :)

  • While this kind of play isn't the most common fetish out there, there are still a lot of people who enjoy it. There's nothing wrong with you. He's overreacting and there's no reason whatsoever for him to make mean and nasty comments to you because of this. I can't say why he reacted this way, the only person who could tell you that is him.

    • Yeah well that's all he tells me so it doesn't make much sense you know?!

    • Yeah, it's hard when someone isn't willing to talk more openly about why they feel a certain way. Maybe he doesn't really understand why he feels the way he does. But all we can do here is speculate, and we may be right or we may be wrong. Maybe it really is just that he sees you doing it as the same, or very similar to if you were squirting. Maybe he thinks him doing it to you would be degrading to you. Maybe he's kind of grossed out to imagine you covered in piss. Maybe he has some double

    • standards concerning men and women when it comes to sex.

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  • I have a fetish with peeing in diapers.. So you're not alone. It's nice to know someone is out there like me! :D

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  • *vomits*

  • Nothing wrong with you at all! But what is wrong with him? I enjoy the hell out of females and their pee. Peeing on a female does nothing for me but I would do that if that is what she wanted...no double standards please!

  • ewwwwww f*** that's disgusting

    • ha ha thanks for the help!

  • I love it! Maybe you can shoot me a request? Real BIG TURN ON!

  • i have an Avatar fetish.. would definately f*** a blue bitch! ;)

    • They are pretty damn hot :D

    • f***ing oath :) ha ha as if you wouldn't :O

  • Umm, I do find this all gross but I'm not here to judge so...Maybe he doesn't understand why you like it or even why he likes it so much. So it freaked him out. I really don't know but next time he wants you to pee on him tell him not until he does it for you.

  • lol he drinks it and he's calling you weird? It gets you off and it's not hurting anybody, so I don't see what the big deal is. My policy is that we would share our fetishes with one another and I'd give it a go as long as it doesn't involve pain or any additional people.

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