Well thinking of when I was younger: in a new relationship if she acted shy about it or not wanting it that made it a challenge & I wanted it to prove I could get it. Otherwise I’d be way less interested.
I remember one case where she said OK... then after a few seconds she changed her mind. Did that on two occasions. So another time she says she wants it (without me asking). But remembering the other time I was: nah!
How important is it? Not that much unless the guy knows you did it with everyone but you won’t with him in my opinion
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PrudentGuyGuru
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1) giving Anal.. no. I have the "dirty" stigma.
2) use toys like butt plug.. yes in her and me. I enjoy prostrate orgasms.
3) give spanks... yes
4) receive spanks... yes
5) look, massage, caress... yes.
6) tights and jeans... yes.
7) dress and long skirts... no.
8) leather... optional.
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Anonymous
+1 y
As in anal sex I've done it a few times and will never do it again I have Ulcerative Colitis so the preparation alone took me hours and it meant that I couldn't eat for up to 10 hours or more it was not fun doing anal and having your stomach growling at you and feeling dizzy
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RubyDee
+1 y
I have doc orders not to do it either as I had surgery. but I feel bad that I can't give everything a guy may want. 🙁
Opinion Owner
+1 y
Don't feel bad your health is more important if he loves you and cares about you he will be understanding and he would never pressure you or guilt you into doing anal just remember not all guys are into anal sex
Redeye2k
+1 y
Girls, don't feel bad. I think anal is more mental than physical. I think the vagina feels 1000 times better than anal because of all the little things like getting wet, change in pressure, her reaction, all the different positions. Not all guys like anal because of the dirty aspect to it. Now that being said, giving oral anal is exciting but not penetration. The Vag is way better... hands down.
Hai_tis_EXper 6
+1 y
I like it but it's not important, can do it myself in my own time.
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slipperydip1994
+1 y
I think the last part confused me but okay, thanks for the contribution
Hai_tis_E
+1 y
I can pleasure myself using toys if I want it and my partner doesn't
slipperydip1994
+1 y
Oh wow. I also can't believe if I was in his lucky shoes that I'd ever pass that up, lol. I'm not a fan of toys but okay cool. Take care.
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slipperydip1994
+1 y
May I ask, what is the comfortable way to do it with partner, as in, lying on side, doggy style, on stomach, etc? Can you take it mild, fast or only slow?
Hai_tis_E
+1 y
Easier in doggy but works any way. Can go fast wherever
slipperydip1994
+1 y
Hmm good to know, thanks heaps, I appreciate your replies.
slipperydip1994
+1 y
P. S. I respect a woman who can take it up the rear as well as you can, peace and best.
LeahBabyXper 5
+1 y
Very important. Hi my name is Leah, and I’m an addict.
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Romeo0071234
+1 y
Hi Leah, nice meeting you. I hope we can be friends 😊
Absolutely vital! I presume you're talking about anal play and anal sex?
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slipperydip1994Xper 3
+1 y
Well, I'm not into butt stuff as in receiving.
But I'd sure love for my perfect/ideal girlfriend or woman to be able to be comfortable receiving anal sex from me. No fingers no toys.
Just every month or few months, we have anal sex, as in she's receiving my member.
I'm not into being pegged, to use the slang, thank you.
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D4nielvXper 7
+1 y
I understand if you can't do it because of a medical condition, but otherwise it's important for my partner to be open to it. And do it at least on a semi-regular basis.
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wankiamMaster
+1 y
never really enjoyed it at all if im honest. i mean i like some extreme things in sex but that isn't one of them
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wankiam
+1 y
its become more prevalent with younger people as many see it in porn and think its 'normal' but in reality it was always quite unusual as part of a 'normal' sex life
RickPen
+1 y
It depends on the society. It was outlawed in the UK before. Look up "buggery" laws. I don't think it's any more or less prevalent than before, only that social norms are changing and people are openly stating that they do. Less stigma is attached. Consider the Victorian era in the US. It was blatantly anti sexual. One article I read from that era specifically mentioned making sex as displeasurable for the man, to never be naked, and to avoid sexual contact or thoughts at all costs. This was a suggestion to a woman for her wedding night. Times change, people change. This isn't just a "younger generation" or (going on a tangent) "millennials are messing up the world again," sort of thing. People do weird stuff. All of it's weird. Really. Nothing new under the sun.
wankiam
+1 y
@RickPen so couple of things... im well aware of uk history thanks and it wasn't in any way a dig at millenials but my comments were based on personal opinion and general fashion trends so i stick by them thanks all the same. oh and as for nothing new under the sun... ofcourse there isn't but certain new forms of media have made something that wasn't common appear like everyone does it all the time
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RickPen
+1 y
That's fair. I didn't interpret it as a direct attack on millennials, hence the tangential disclaimer beforehand. I do appreciate your opinion, and furthering the explanation. Perhaps mass media is not as beneficial as we were lead to believe? I don't even watch the TV anymore. Too many ads, and the news seems more about sensationalism than facts. Thanks for taking the time to reply.
wankiam
+1 y
@RickPen well i hear you on that one and im always willing to answer any subject where i have direct experience... kind of why im here lol
R4vedaveYoda
+1 y
Maybe like. 3/10.
Its not a deal breaker, but it's really nice to have the option. Expand your horizons lol
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elizamichale1Guru
+1 y
I love doing it
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justawhitemanExplorer
+1 y
you should be xper 2 after this post 😂😂
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RubyDee
+1 y
uh wats that lol
justawhiteman
+1 y
it next to your name
justawhiteman
+1 y
experience level
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justawhiteman
+1 y
your 1 rn
RubyDee
+1 y
ohh haha!!
justawhiteman
+1 y
😛😂😂
chriscdiMaster
+1 y
butt stuff?
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Danny_dan92Master
+1 y
You mean anal?
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genericname85Master
+1 y
i mean it would be nice if she'd be interested in trying stuff but it's not so important to me.
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bangyourheadGuru
+1 y
20% important. IF you fuck me good and suck cock like a champ, I’ll go without anal.
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dudeinohioMaster
+1 y
Important to me
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COMMODOREIIMaster
+1 y
What butt stuff?
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TwalliMaster
+1 y
I want to do it at least once with her.
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alance99Guru
+1 y
I love it
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Cannuck22Xper 7
+1 y
Depends I love a nice butt on a girl but it’s not the end all be all
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abc--123Master
+1 y
I love butt stuff but my current girlfriend won't entertain it at all
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Exorcist_RampageYoda
+1 y
That's a righteous booty. I'm not into anal but after seeing that, I may change my mind.
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