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If you've ever masturbated in the same room with someone of the same gender, were you horny BECAUSE of them or IN SPITE OF them being there?

One time in college definitely falls in the second category. Me and my sophomore year roommate were sitting around our dorm room one Saturday night drinking Cosmos and talking about guys we'd been with or wanted to get with. As we got more and more buzzed, our stories got more and more pornographic. After a couple hours of this, my panties felt like they were soaked and I could literally see the crotch of my jeans turning a darker shade of blue.

Just as I was about to say I was really tired and we should "get some sleep," she looked straight at me and said "I really need to rub off. Do you mind?" I breathed a huge sigh of relief and was like "Yeah, me too." We scrambled under our covers, pulled our pants down and started jilling as fast as we could.

I came really hard, and I definitely needed the release, but it wasn't BECAUSE of her or what she was doing. There was never any sexual tension between us before or since, but that night I just really needed it. Has anything like that ever happened to you?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • May have jerked off at a friends house at a sleep over once he was asleep as a teenager. I’d been checking out his older sister so went to bed horny.

    • She must’ve been hi t

    • Hot.

    • His sister was. Isn’t the first friends sister I’ve masturbated over!

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  • nice story... never with someone of the same sex though. Have with female friends in the room though

    • Awesome :-)

    • thanks for the MHO!

Most Helpful Girls

  • We were just two crazy young college girls with "toys" who had nothing better to do when we were bored & our boyfriends weren't nearby.

    • Pretty much the same with us, except no toys

    • @WhiteShoulder: Thank you for the other MHGirl. :)

    • Np 😊

  • Fuck that is hot

    • Told you I finally got to masturbate last night ;-)

    • 😯 I know sorry haven't replied to your message yet

    • It’s ok. I probably will again by then 😏.

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  • ... because of :)

    If you've ever masturbated in the same room with someone of the same gender, were you horny BECAUSE of them or IN SPITE OF them being there?

    • Cool :-)

    • I've watched that video a few times lol

    • Which video is this? It’s for sciences

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  • No. But men's sexuality is something completely different then women's. That's why men are much more likely to hate homosexual guys than women would hate homosexual women.
    It may sound weird, but for women, sex with other women is usually MUCH more acceptable then for guys. Not that ever woman is a lesbian :P Just that, it's not "repulsive" for you to associate other woman with sex. So don't worry about it.

  • Plenty a time but it was with a mature understanding of the situation and boundaries/consent were gained.

  • I’d say both, but every time that’s happened to me (with a guy or girl) one of us made a move and it turned into sex

  • Never masturbated in front of anyone except for my ex

    • Yeah, I’ve done that

  • I have with my sister in the same room on family holidays, Would have prefered her not to be there

    • I had the same experience

  • Yes i have but not with the same gender it was with a female friend of mine

    • Awesome :-). What happened?

    • Let me send in a message its to long it won't send

  • That's more of a girl thing, but that's fine. You guys were both aroused and came to an agreement to flick the ole bean. Dudes usually give each other space and time. We used to call it guy time in our dorms. Like, "hey can I come chill in your room for a minute and play video games. Jimmy Boy said he needed some guy time real quick, so I left." Now if you and you're friend would have rubbed each other, that would be different. But you guys came to the agreement to go under the covers and release some pressure, and that's alright.

    • Exactly

  • Been to a gang bang or two there was other men masturbating waiting on there turns but our focus was on the ladies in the room.

  • Sounds like just locker room talk for females and things got too much to keep inside haha... no, never.

    • Pretty much 😂

  • ''I came really hard, and I definitely needed the release, but it wasn't BECAUSE of her or what she was doing.''

    What she was doing would have likely added to the sexual tension. The question is whether you could admit that or not.

  • Defo the second one for me too.

    • Totally ;-)

  • Sounds like something you would do in prison

    • 😂😂😂

  • Fuck no 👀

    There might as well be a camel having a big, stinky shit in the same room. There is no way that I could have any arousal with another guy in the room.

    • Got it lol

    • I still love you though bruh ❤️

    • Love you too dude <3

  • In spite of them being there... it's a lot harder to finish in a standing position (by myself) so always did it in my bed. And sometimes there was someone in the room too.

    • Yeah. Same.

    • The question is whether they noticed xD

    • @WhiteShoulder @SydneySentinel omg you guys🤦

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  • Multiple times in a room full of my army mates, I was grinding against the top bunk bed while my best army friend at the time slept on the bed under.

    This one was in spite of them, but I guess I also enjoyed the "danger" of it.

    There was also one time on a bridge when I was probably 16 or so, 8 years ago.
    I was looking at someone from afar, she was walking on a long road below me and when she came closer I realized I knew her, she was in the same grade as I was.
    She looked back at me, eventually I finished and put it in my now sticky pants, wiped it in. I walked and sat on the other side of the bridge and she stopped and said hello, asked what I was doing there.
    My body was hidden by a sign but who knows, maybe she knew.

    This was definitely because I was horny but also the fact it was her was really satisfying considering she's good looking and has big tits.

    There was another time where I hung out with a friend (age 15 maybe) and around the time we finished we were in her living room and she put her legs on me while I was sitting and I was aroused by all this, I tried to put my pin between her lower legs but she noticed funny business and didn't let me nor did she comment.

    I wouldn't say it's because of her because I doubt it was intentional so I guess I was a horn-dog when I was younger.

    • Awesome stories 😊

  • Oh god no i could never do that with same gender. That would just put me out the mood right away.
    To do it with same gender you have to be like super super laidback or 0.0000000001% like the same gender to the point without realising but enough to feel okay with doing that.

    Where as if it was oppsite sex and we are just friends, masterbating in the same room and shit i wouldn't mind cause i am laidback. I wouldn't do it becase of her jst near her. While she does the same wouldn't bother me.

    Just like how my used to be best friend got naked in front of me while changing i did the same. And sure she was hot but we were just friends lol

    • That’s awesome 😊

  • Never been. In porn im horny with seeing an erect penis. In real life itd be inspite. The only exception would be a really sexy transwoman.

  • 😂😂 I've allowed it in a hotel room i was staying at with a friend but i said to him you have to check im asleep first so i dont hear anything.

  • I've never masturbated in the same room as another man. I'd find that very hard, ...
    ... as it were.
    I basically wouldn't want to do it.

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