I can't pick any one thing. It's usually a combination of D and F.
D- I've noticed that, for whatever reason, women are encouraged against letting go in bed. They seem to be overly concerned with if the male gets his rocks off (which is stupid because we almost always will anyway), and so they're unwilling to focus on their own sensations.
F- I see this being more of a problem in women who are in their mid twenties. They end up settling for guys they're not attracted to. Unlike with D, this is ENTIRELY their fault and I have no idea why they do it.. so I can't say anything more.
I'm somewhat tempted to list A as a reason.. and there is some merit to it. However I consider A as being a sort of sub-reason under D.. because technique is a big part of what encourages her to let go.
Often, there's not really any "fault", but one or multiple issues (including those you listed) could be part of the equation. Obviously, the guy needs to have some skill and he needs to be willing to make some effort, but the woman must also be able to relax and she needs to understand her body's physical needs (which vary to some degree from woman to woman).
Couples need to work on it together, and both have some responsibility to make it happen.
Fault shouldn't even be part of the equation unless the woman's partner is making no attempt at foreplay to get her ready. Makes more sense for the woman to try different things with her partner to see if she can have an orgasm. If nothing works maybe go to the doctor to make sure her hormones are ok and if any meds she is taking are messing with her ability to orgasm.
I guess if it doesn’t happen, it’s usually cuz men don’t find clits interesting enough to pay attention to. You bet men would suck dicks no matter what.
It's the womens fault. She needs to tell him what she likes and be able to let go. It's not his job to make her cum
Do you think the same for men?
@kim45456 yeah definitely its not my job to make a guy cum during sex
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I wouldn't assign blame on anyone in this situation. Whatever you are doing in the bedroom isn't working. Find something that works for you and let your partner know! Being vocal on what gets you off is essential.
Not a single option of yours fit entirely to the situation -
1. It could be man who is not good enough.
2. It could be the girl who is not into sex mentally or physically
3. It could be both and also the lack of foreplay and techniques envolved
4. It could be the nature
Not all women orgasm... and also those who do - do not orgasm always (with few exceptional females)..
So, don't give it much thought and enjoy the drilling session between your legs.
According to Trump it is Obama's fault.
It really depends on her mood his actions during sex her position in sex and the amount of time it takes for her t o work up to it.. unlike a man women can take a long time to get off and that leaves little time to enjoy it if you know the man takes less then 10 mins
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I think some women's genetics or biology makes some easier to orgasm from penetration more than others.
I don't think it's either parties fault, just the luck of the draw of life really.
That happens to me once in a while. No one’s fault.
Let me just be the first to say that if I was fucking You your numbers would change for the better😎
could be any of the above or a million other reasons but one things for sure, its not a war of who to blame but an opportunity to try new things together that may well make her cum
Everything that happens doesn't have to be someone's fault. in my opinion people are responsible for their own orgasm. It's up to the woman to communicate what works for her. If her partner is not responsive then she should find a better partner.
Either or both. Too many reasons.
There are too many factors at play to choose.
Okay I said skill, Because honestly that's usually the reason from either side.
Skill and experience can help with 90% of problems. If he had a small one he should get used to getting someone off with other methods.
(But also sex doesn't always need to have an orgasm, when you chase an orgasm you skip the pleasure in between. My fiance has learned the pleasure in between is highly enjoyable and the orgasm is usually ignored. Sometimes it happens sometimes not. Depends on how tired we end up)
It's feminisms fault.
Not enough foreplay
She might not be into him enough,
He doesn’t have enough dik or the right shape
He hasn’t had much experience
He doesn’t enjoy her juices and doesn’t suck her clit
Her vagina is too short
Her clit is tiny and even difficult to work
She is dry and/or he doesn’t get hard enough
Both are dead in bed
And the pill kills the natural female orgasm due to the steady hormones and lack of natural cycles
Mood setting is wrong
Either remind one of someone else not good
There can be many causes, and playing the blame game seems like a surface level solution that never addresses the root issue.
Also its worth remembering that penetration only stimulates the inner part of the clit indirectly, as the vaginal wall sits in between. So its no wonder more girls can cum from direct hand/mouth / toy stimulation of their "outer" clit. Of course the man should do his part too, and a lot of orgasm is mental too
I feel it can be BOTH their fault
It's usually the guys fault
If you actually have a lover then it is not a blame thing but something to work on. What works, what isn't working, anything new to try, signals while in the act
It can be a multitude of things.
Mostly, probably because we're too quick, or not pleasuring you enough.
(Excuse me, Gentlemen)
Her fault she is the the only one that can orgasm. Or should know herself well enough to orgasm. I can help her, but I dont ultimately make her go over the edge. If more women realized they are in control of there own pleasure, they would have much better experiences.
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