In a consensual sexual situation, how do you feel about being choked?

In a consensual sexual situation, how do you feel about being choked?
This poll is about YOU being choked.
I've never been choked (consensually) during sexual relations, & I don't want to try it
Vote A
I've never been choked (consensually) during sexual relations, but I'd be willing to try it
Vote B
I've been choked (consensually) during sexual relations. I DISLIKED it
Vote C
I was indifferent - I neither enjoyed nor disliked it
Vote D
50/50 mixed feelings
Vote E
I enjoyed it
Vote F
I enjoyed it a lot
Vote G
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I would probably enjoy it if I was prepared. The first and only time I ever experienced it was without warning when he was doing me from behind and his hand slowly moved to around my neck, it was super hot as he was grabbing onto me until I started to feel faint and almost passed out. It was just the unexpected nature of it more than anything that worried me because I couldn't talk to warn him that I'm about to lose consciousness in the dark. I wasn't sure whether it was deliberate or not either. So yeah, a warning would probably have been best. But despite that, it did make the feeling down below more intense which was a good thing about it.

    • This happened because he put too much pressure on my artery I think because even though I was breathing harder I just didn't feel like I could get enough air to stay conscious. Is that choking?

  • I really like it. We have signals and stuff for when to carry on or when to lighten up so I always feel safe when he's doing it and it's never hard enough to mark my skin or to properly hurt. Neither of us are particularly into me choking him but him doing it to me is nice.

  • My boyfriend and I gave it a shot yesterday. It wasn't anything crazy just him putting a little pressure on my throat while we fucked like he wasn't out here tryna suffocate me or anything. Decided we wouldn't do it again felt a little too good for the both of us.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I'm surprised how many people voted never have I thought it was just a sex thing I know it's become a huge thing recently for sex links to become more public but I honestly just thought choking was part of sex can't think of any girl my whole life who hasn't choked me or been choked during sex

  • I got a defensive reaction to someone grabbing my throat. If someone, even my partner tried to choke me, it'd be a hand to hand combat situation.

    In a consensual sexual situation, how do you feel about being choked?
    • HTF!

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I always ask my boyfriend to be a little rough with me sometimes... hair pulling, choking and grabbing are such great turn ons... I love it when he shows he’s in charge and just owns me.

  • Bring choked HARD is such a turn on for me! One of my absolute favorite sexual moves

  • Not into rough stuff like that. I prefer being more gentle.

  • Like the two gentlemen below me said so succinctly.

    You choke Me it’s an aggressive act of violence and You get choked till you stop.

  • I absolutely love my boyfriends strong hand wrapped around my neck. I always beg him to choke me.

  • In a consensual sexual situation, how do you feel about being choked?



    That's a summary of how I feel about fingers around my neck ;)

    • Not choking like to kill me. Its like putting pressure in the fingers, but just enough. It's an adrenaline rush in that semi choke Perfect for being f**ked hard.

  • I have never been chocked and I don't think i would like it, but I would try it.

  • If anyone tries to choke me, it will be treated as a life-threatening act of aggression and I will respond accordingly!

  • Laugh at her puny hands. Btdt

  • I would love it.

  • hell no, i don't like the sensation of suffocation or dying. Plus the person might take it to far or actually be trying to kill you cause that's how they get off. I also do the hand cuff thing to the bed either. I seen Gerald's game, don't want to end up in that situation or worse lol

  • I have no interest in it at all.

  • Choking is good for you and good for me. It's like, I thought we were having sex but now we're fighting, but still having sex. Multi-tasking at it's finest. 5/7 would do it again

  • He's gently wrapped his hand (s) around my neck several times but never squeezed or tightened.

  • I love being choked, I'll take my husbands hand and put it around my neck so he knows I want to be choked

  • I like it. It’s hot and it makes it more intense

  • Has never happened to me, but I would be up for trying it

  • She does the choking, it took some time to get used to it and trust her.

  • I’ve been choked nonconsensually. I do NOT like it consensually.

    • So you do not like it when asked for consent to do so, but if you're not asked and it was spontaneous it's okay. Or am I reading that wrong?

    • @BarryMcKohkner no!! I don’t like either.

  • YES
    YES
    CHOKE ME
    I'M INTO CHOKING
    JUST DON'T KILL ME

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