Have you ever had to ask your partner to "STOP" after sexual foreplay began? ... or, in other words... ARE YOU A SCREAMER?

Question

I have had to do it many times, which is my fault, since I should not even let it get started to begin with, but since I am in a nearly constant state of arousal, it is not my proclivity to say no.

The problem for me is that I get very loud as I approach, and enter into, an orgasm... ever heard of a "Screamer".

OK, I know it's Halloween time, but that is not the kind of screaming I am referring to... or, on second thought, maybe it is... lol

Anyway, if I am somewhere that I know I have to keep it more quiet, like a room with paper thin walls, when others are around, then I just tell them to stop, unless we have a ball-gag handy, or they don't mind keeping their hand over my mouth the whole time... lol

Are there other reasons you have had to make it stop?

Guys, have you ever experienced a screamer in bed?

Share your experiences with us, please!

Have you ever had to ask your partner to STOP after sexual foreplay began? ... or, in other words... ARE YOU A SCREAMER?

ask4any · Accepted Answer

Yes, a girl I had just started dating invited me to her family's for Thanksgiving. I excused myself to go to the bathroom and got tackled on the way out. Ending up in her father's office, next to the kitchen, we started having sex. We had prior to this and new we were both vocal with good decibals, but I figured she'd realize where we were and try to keep it low. I was mistaken. After several pleas to keep it down I finally had to flip her to her stomach, one arm around the neck as in a chokehold the other hand over her mouth finally drowned out the screaming. But the skin smacking as we went at it pretty roughly were enough to warrant smirks and smiles as we re-entered the living room 40 minutes later. You bet your ass I gave thanks that night. 2 years later she was my wife.

hafinjun · Accepted Answer

I love screamers really makes the old male ego happy. I had a neighbor a few years ago a little goth thing pretty lots of ink big... well you get the idea. One Sunday morning early i heard her screaming like she was being disected. Id heard her before but this was different. I went pounded on her door and was just about to kick it when it opened a crack and she peaked out i was pleased to see her intact. I asked her if she was okay she turned crimson and nodded she whispered "new boy friend " i said sorry and went back home. She was nice enough to leave the window open

Paulaanderson · Accepted Answer

I was dating a father of two. This was before I was married
First time in bed at his I tried to stop him as was a screamer and didn't want us to be walked in on
Wasn't successful
Got walked in on with his face buried in me and me cumming to the look on his eldest face seeing us at it

Jane_Foster · Accepted Answer

I'm a screamer, yes. Should I have asked him to stop, out of respect for the neighbors? Absolutely Have I actually asked him to stop? Fuck no 😂

elizamichale1 · Accepted Answer

Oh i am a loud moaner and it turns me on more when someone is watching or knows whats happening here lol

VIVANT · Answer

I have asked people to stop but not bc I was screaming. Just bc I wanted to stop. I wasn’t comfortable.

Lliam · Answer

There's nothing sexier than a woman who screams, writhes and bucks during orgasm. It can be embarrassing when others can hear, though. I've had a woman clutch a pillow to her face in order to muffle her cries.

1231prncss · Answer

I do like to get loud when it's an option, but I can also control my voice and moans if need be. I'd rather have a quiet orgasm than no orgasm so I'll gladly stay quiet of the situation warrants it.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

I had to tone it down... We've gotten complaints!

Apple1996 · Answer

Nah I'm not that loud unless its anal then I'm screaming

Secret6620 · Answer

Too Many Times💦💦💦

MsLexiD · Answer

I'm loud. like, really loud, sometimes to the point where in the past when I was in an apartment I had to dampen the sound by putting something in my mouth (panties come in handy for this purpose).

Elliegirl · Answer

I’m not loud. I’m more of a moaner than a screamer.

Jean-Marie_Céline · Answer

A bit embarassing, but the neighbor next door did rang us once because he heard strange things and got concerned. He always smiles at us now.

WhiteShoulder · Answer

Nearly constant state of arousal? lol I moan. I hardly ever scream.

Finchie40 · Answer

Yes Screamers are my favorite , , such a turn on , makes it more erotic when she is loud

FunkyDrummer70 · Answer

I just loved that you used the word proclivity!!! Kudos

FunkyMonkee · Answer

No, I've never had to ask her to stop and I'm not a screamer. I've never been with one, either

jreev2020 · Answer

I have been with a woman who is very vocal. I like to tease her till she physically can't take it no more and craves for me to put it in. So I whisper in her ear if you scream I'm taking it out of you. Then seeing the pleasure on her face as it goes in and seeing her trying so hard not to scream. lol. But that's just a bitta fun I make it into but in the end there's a lot of screaming. If she gotta scream then she gotta scream. lol. At Least you know she's enjoying it. lol

richardoshea · Answer

Yeah had to stop a few women from being too noisey I think they're just too disrespectful to be honest if we were in the middle of nowhere I couldn't care less