What is the longest you have gone without sexual intercourse? Did you lose your sex drive or were you horny all the time?

[LovingJo]

It's a fact that after a significant amount of time, that the majority of women lose their drive for sex. Whether it be physically, mentally or both.
But for the majority of men, it can be quite the opposite.. And having been in a position to experience both situations.. I'm curious to see what you think! 🙂

[SueShe]

My longest time is 17 years and a few months.

I have no sex drive because as soon as I get this uneasy feeling of libido, I rush to do some yoga exercises and a session of meditation. I also go jogging in order to tire my body out. After about an hour's intensive and exhausting set of exercises, the libido is gone. I have become a master at suppressing those useless feelings.

I can only recommend it to anyone that does not want to be a slave of his/her sexual hormones but rather control them.

[LovingJo]

You're a Virgin my lovely. Don't push yourself intuition doing anything you don't want to. I wish I had waited till I was at least 17!!😒❤️ But experimenting with yourself is perfectly natural AND healthy!! I need to do it more!! 😳🙄 You can always message me if you'd like to talk. I'm hear to listen & advise if you'd like it 😘

[LovingJo]

Into* doing..

[SueShe]

Thanks for your reply. That is sweet of you. I am perfectly aware of what people think of those body manipulations. Personally I find it not hygienic, messy and useless. I am not here to contradict your experience with it of course. Thanks for your time and nice cat you have on your profile picture :-)

[LovingJo]

What do you mean by body manipulations? And at 17 it's very difficult to have a fully controlled view on sex. I mean when I look back to when I was 17, I thought I knew what I wanted and what I was doing, but it was changed drastically.. a few times!! 😒 Either way, if you'd like to talk privately, I would really like to talk to you. 👍 And thank you for the compliment, she is my whole world!! ❤️

[SueShe]

By body manipulation, I mean what others would call masturbation. The act of artificially inducing a series of muscular contraction with an ejection of body fluids (males) or vaginal discharges (females). Since it is not a naturally occurring phenomenon, they are a manipulative and conscious interaction and thus I call them body manipulations.

[Rica_ChicaUSA]

Following my first time, my time without it was 3 years, and I’ve never had it where my drive lessened or went away. I have a pretty high sex drive, but I don’t do it with just anybody or just for pleasure either. But after 3 and a half years I have fallen in love again, but I never lost my drive.

[LovingJo]

Yours is pretty much the same as mine, except that I mentally still have the drive.. but physically don't get it very often at all. Butt that's due to pain and low self-confidence. I back off trying to find somebody, but I really would like to be with somebody again but it's just very difficult trying to get yourself out there and do it.. when you feel this way! 😒

[LovingJo]

But*

[Anonymous]

Almost 10 years 😭.
Yes, that long!

My sex drive definitely was low during that drought, even with porn and masturbation. My sex drive is only high when I'm physically with someone.

[Chris12343212]

I couldn't cum for a week because I was on pain meds for an injury and it made me numb. I could get hard but no orgasim. As soon as I stopped taking the pain meds I blew up in my sleep if you know what I mean. First time. It was a mess...

[LovingJo]

Thing is, I'm stuck. And can't come off them or I wouldn't make it! 😭💔

[Chris12343212]

That's rough try taking less if you can I know it drove me crazy being like that and almost got a friction burn. But pain isn't something you can always ignore. Hope you feel better soon.

[LovingJo]

Thanks so much. But Unfortunately I'll never get better, only worse. I wish to God that I could come off it all and be put on medical marijuana.. but it's so sparsely used in the UK - it's so very frustrating!! There are barely any drugs left at all that I can take to have any effect, because my body is so immune to them. I'm Miserable every single day because of my body. 😢💔

[Chris12343212]

That"s horrible it's actually 100% legal where I live in Oregon US they allow you to have 10oz's at your house lol it's very cheap also. Hopefully they will let you use it on a medical basis because its a-lot safer than pain medication. And less addicting. Wish you didn't feel miserable every day :( please take care.

[LovingJo]

Thank you, you're very sweet xx

[hellionthesagereborn]

9 years. As for the sex drive, I have to "go" multiple times a day so yeah, haven't lost it.

[laurieluvsit]

I am so sorry to keep answering all your questions with a myTake, but I did write one about this general subject... lol

QUESTIONS THAT MAY NEVER BE ANSWERED!

[sagevvalentine]

I think that's true. I am forever single, so I wouldn't know about sex... but if I go a week without touching myself, from being busy or travel or whatever, I'll either then not have any urges for awhile or I'll really quite horny.

[sagevvalentine]

^I'll get really quite horny.

[D4nielv]

Is it random whether you get horny or not, or do you just get really horny in rushes?

[sagevvalentine]

@D4nielv I've never really thought about it, sometimes I just start thinking and then daydreaming and then daydreaming about sex and then I get horny. And when I am close to my period or ovulating, unless I'm busy, I think I'm almost permanently horny. (sorry if this is oversharing, you asked for it :))

[D4nielv]

To me you're still miles from oversharing 😉 but feel free to follow me if you don't want to be so open about it in public. So from what you're saying, you're basically always horny, unless you have something to distract you from it, in which you can actually focus on the task at hand? And as soon as you sit down and let your mind wander, you're back to being horny?

[eeeeep]

Almost 6 months with no sex or masturbating at all. I started having vivid sex dreams at night and i was super bitchy at times.

[StrongMale]

The longest I have ever gone without having sexual intercourse is about 3 months. I have a very strong sex drive, so I was horny all the damn time.

[Hannah_98]

20 years 😂

[Ms_Facesitter]

20 years

[LovingJo]

It doesn't quite count if you were a Virgin my lovely. 😘

[Ms_Facesitter]

Sorry 😂

[Meatunnel69]

You had sax at 5? 😳

[Ms_Facesitter]

@Meatunnel69 No :D

[FunkyMonkee]

So far, nearly 23 years. This Dec. 12th will BE 23 years. No, I haven't lost my sex drive, just my sex partner and haven't been able to find one since.

[hellionthesagereborn]

and I thought I had it bad at 9 years. Ouch. Though quality will always be more important then quantity.

[FunkyMonkee]

@hellionthesagereborn The time before that was 8 years and a full year before that

[hellionthesagereborn]

Yeah that's a bad streak.

[Iuse2hands]

It's been years. Sex drive has not decreased.

[Gedaria]

About 3years, yes always horny...

[COMMODOREII]

2 years for me. I was depressed and lost my sex drive.

[LuWe22]

23 years. Now I can do three days

[Tennessee_fan]

Without sex like 3 months maybe 3 and a half so I had to stick to masturbating

[krikke007]

Never lost it.
It became stonger to find someone as time goes bye

[Bwyze]

The 1st time 7 years... the next time was 4 years... I haven't lost my drive... and no I wasn't horny all the time... I have found out that being "Horny," is a mental thing... if that's what you think... then that's how you feel

[LaMiSch]

8 months... and i was horny af everyday! 😅

[kimmy112]

You are right but to my opinion I will say if you meet the right partner at any age I don't think you will not have interest in sexual intercourse, sex is more pleasurable when you have it with a person you love and cherish

[himanshuroyram]

About 6 months.. And i was hell horny.

[lickybo87]

My girl don't like it no more I'm horny all of the time I like to fuck I can't do it I got to fuck something

[Anonymous]

Took me until the age of 24 years to lose my virginity but when I did lose my virginity I would say the longest was 2 years

[Anonymous]

I'm a virgin and I've never had a sex drive

[LovingJo]

Have you ever played with yourself? You must have, every child as they grow into a young adult does? 🤔😊

[Opinion Owner]

No, I haven't

[LovingJo]

What do you mean?

[Opinion Owner]

? You asked if I've ever played with myself and I said no

[LovingJo]

OK, did you delete my opinion?

[Opinion Owner]

Huh? What opinion? I can't delete opinions. This is your question...

[LovingJo]

I can see it now, god knows what happened. Well when you get a few of the simple tasks it the way.. You get the xper and then you can Medstead me OK 😊 I'll be here. Don't worry. My phone hasn't stopped allll day!!! Lmao 😂💕

[Opinion Owner]

Um... I barely understood a word you just said. I've been on this site for 5 years. I don't need xper

[LovingJo]

I was just trying to say that if you haven't got the xper then you can't message maybe.. But that's what you said to me, so I figured maybe you didn't have enough - that's what you said right? 🤔 Or Did I get that wrong? I'm sorry if I did 🙏

[Opinion Owner]

I'm guessing English isn't your first language... I didn't say anything about messaging you. You asked if I deleted your opinion which does not make any sense since this is YOUR question, nor is it relevant to anything. I don't know where you got "messaging" from.

[LovingJo]

Extremely rude, just because I got the word "message" wrong does not mean English isn't my first language. I'm English born and bred, thank you.. but I'm sorry that I got messaging the wrong way round and don't worry about it. All I was trying to say was you can talk to me if you want to.. but just forget it, it's fine I was just trying to be nice.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm sorry for being rude but you didn't say I could talk to you. You asked if I deleted your opinion, what did you mean by that?

[Opinion Owner]

So I went back and looked at your message and you had some typos, that's why I didn't understand what you said. What did you mean by, "God knows what happened"?

[LovingJo]

My phone changes what I've typed. It's very frustrating!!

[Opinion Owner]

Okay but what did you mean by "God knows what happened"?

[LovingJo]

That I wrote what I wanted to say and somehow it changed it.. I'm sorry about the messaging thing. I was talking to two of you, that didn't have your name up so I got confused, I am sorry again, but I was only trying to help.

[Opinion Owner]

Help with what though?

[LovingJo]

Just anything you wanted to talk about. If you wanted to talk. The messages were mixed up. I've said I'm sorry. OK?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, you're sorry, I got it. I was just asking to see if there was a specific reason why you offered. Do you offer to talk to everyone?

[LovingJo]

No. I don't.