People who are into BDSM: Do you do kinky things during masturbation, or do you simply masturbate normally?

Question

For the sake of this poll, being "into BDSM" means "to derive sexual pleasure from giving and/or receiving pain and/or humiliation."

For an example of what I mean by "doing kinky things during masturbation", an example is that my friend @lewisvenable said that he's poured hot wax on himself & that he bought a whip to "find a way" to whip himself, but then it ended up breaking 😂😂😂 (he gave me permission to share this)

People who are into BDSM: Do you do kinky things during masturbation, or do you simply masturbate normally?

Craftsman · Accepted Answer

There is a lot to be said for variation in masturbatory activity. BDSM is most pleasurable when one has a partner that is agreeable and the emotional fit is good. I like playing with rope, chain, and similar restraints at times. I've never gotten into flagellation or watersports during masturbation, and not all that often in a well-matched pair situation. My BDSM is more in the mind than it is acted out, though I will admit Shibari does do some interesting things for my mind. :-)

Capnjaques · Accepted Answer

I'm more interested in the power exchange and bonding you develop in a relationship. Rubbing one out isn't really as sexual for me as it is stress relief. I'd rather just masturbate and get back to whatever I was doing.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I'm limited on the BDSM. Honestly, the only thing I like on that category is the one about impact play fantasy. This means getting a hard bottom spank to the point it leaves bruises and then having a social gathering the following day while struggling to sit down. I don't like anything else.

I find myself masturbating on the thought of being the spanked girl with a sore, bruised bottom, then looking at the marks in the mirrors and rubbing them.

LittleTroubleMaker94 · Accepted Answer

Ya I've done kinky things to masturbate I dont have to every time but I do if I want like a good hard orgasm. So like spanking myself sometimes or watching roll play porn or talking to people and having them tell me about their experiences. I've tied my feet together before and tried my hands but it didn't work out well lol but it's always better when you have someone else to take control

Blakeleyy · Accepted Answer

I prefer doing kinky things with my partner but il occasionally do it myself

Like tying myself up and that kinda thing

Most iv done is tying myself to the curtain railing of my bedroom window with a vibrator in middle of the day till my boyfriend got home like 3 hours later

Z3ID366 · Answer

There is choking yourself, I think it also applies as self BDSM I don't think choking yourself is something I would do but in sex I would want to try some stuff, you know just for experiences

Hamsteroids · Answer

BDSM isn’t really possible by yourself 🤔

violetredsun · Answer

Normal masturbation...

Y3llow · Answer

I would if I could tie myself up 😏

humanearth · Answer

I'm a sicko. I'm kinky all the time

TylerC137 · Answer

Does masturbating in the Amazon position count? Wanting to be dominated?

Texaskid1 · Answer

I am into warm apple pie.  Feels like the real thing.

hansukota · Answer

Just watch bdsm porn..

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I didn't know there was such a thing as kinky masturbation. ... Wait- what ended up breaking?

okeydoke · Answer

I’m into BDSM, but outside of the porn I watch I don’t integrate it into masturbation.

broncobryan · Answer

I mean it's kinda hard to tye yourself up and then masturbate and then untie yourself.

lovedejj_xo · Answer

Prefer it with someone else. That’s really it

COMMODOREII · Answer

I've always been curious.

pewdiepie_ · Answer

I would love to do bdsm with a girl but currently I am single. Not going to pour hot wax on body myself.

Kiran_Yagami · Answer

I only do the kinky stuff for real with a partner, not by myself to masturbate.

Guardian45 · Answer

Kinky masturbation takes the fun OUT OF BDSM.

Dr_Latex_McPeggin · Answer

I used Blowup Dolls as Dons when I solo play and will run the gambit of Kink wether its strapon play, chastity, collar and leash and so on. There can be a ton of fun had with it...