18 years ago a guy I was screwing at the time and me found this internet site "Make Your Own Sex Tape" where if you followed the required rules ( 1hr of tape per day for 7 days and each one had to have some sexual activity in it's content. No third party could be involved in the videos or in the filming of them.) they would if accepted pay each of us $1200 dollars.
We ended up doing the videos, sending them in and low and behold about 3 months later checks came with a letter stating they were accepted and we were now posted on their website. Last I knew we were still on there site. The funny part was him and I had split before the money came and took me about 2 months to ever find him again to give him his check.
If anyone ever says it is easy to make a decent film by yourself, they obviously never gave it a try.
I’m fine with my boyfriend doing it. He uses his phone to make videos of me giving him blowjobs or him pulling out and cumming on my stomach or ass. He’s big into the interracial thing (he’s black I’m white), so I just let him do his thing with it. Just ask him if he’s comfortable. He probably will be.
Not very open. I don't want to see my own body in front of a mirror let alone played back on video doing the most intimate things.
I'm not. I think it's huge trouble, but maybe for some people it's the spice of life. it's your life.
What you dow ith that if it gets out? What about when someone who wants to commit to you finds it burried on your phone? Some people it be a problem, some an opportunity. It's your life.
I'd suggest you ask him about his favorite naughty fantasies in exchange for you disclosing some of yours. That'll give you an opening to bring it up and if he bites, which I suspect he will, you're on. You can always sweeten the pot by offering to do that thing you're reluctant to do.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Been there done that. My guy was very happy, just ask, he’s your boyfriend.
Not boyfriend, sorry, I’m blind on Thursdays.
Go for it, all he can say no to is video but can't say no to the sex
As much as any sex partners of mine have ever requested, I've never, ever, denied them any opportunity to record any visual/audio details of our encounters. Who knows? - you might have even seen pictures of my erect penis on the internet!
How open would you be to your little brother seeing that on an amateur porn site? If you think it could never happen, I can introduce you to one of my clients who thought the same thing could never happen to her. . . until it did happen.
The conversation goes something like this "have you ever made a home movie? You want to make one with me?"
Just understand, such tapes, particularly when done with someone where you are not in a long term, trusting relationship, have a way of getting around to friends and on the internet. Consider how you would feel, if your boss, co-workers, family, mom and dad, neighbors, etc., saw you sucking off and fucking, as you say. Tapes are particularly problematic in the kind of relationship you describe.
A wonderful lady sent me an audio clip of her having sex with her male partner, and it was incredibly exciting.
I've done it before and don't see a problem with it as long as it stays between you.
On my phone you can find numerous photos/videos of me being eaten out/facesitting my SOs and unlucky bet losers. Lmao.
Just ask him and don't forget to mention why. Make sure he understands that you're not putting it online and are just using it for your own entertainment. Worst case scenario he says no. I can't imagine anyone getting upset about being asked this, as long as you accept their refusal.
Just ask, have him record it with your phone. That way you have the only copy. You don't want him sharing with his buddies or putting it online
If he isn't, the world is full of guys who would be.
Not at all
I’d be open to it too. Never have before! That sounds so hot too! Just casually bring it when you’re in the heat of the moment and I’m sure he’d go for it. Let us know how it goes!
Most dudes will if they don't have identifying parts in the video and if they have control of the video. In fact many would be turned on. I've done it before and it was sexy af
Yeah it’s norm go for it
only one way to find out. it could be really hot so hopefully he's into it
Lol just be open and ask him
I have recorded many times. We see and hear which get us horny.
If you want to get recorded, initiate discussion with your partner to know his views. He might like it but hesitant to take initiative.
With the girl I’m with! It’s sexy as hell! I keep that stuff with me when I travel! For a random person, no thanks
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