Ladies, should men feel threatened by vibrators?

Question

Does using a vibrator reduce your desire for 'the real thing'?
Does using a vibrator desensitize you to an orgasm when not using one?
How often during sex do you wish you could add a vibrator to finish you off, but you're worried about offending the guy?

Ladies, should men feel threatened by vibrators?

Lliam · Accepted Answer

I'll chime in as a man. I don't feel one bit threatened by the idea of a woman having a vibrator. I love a lusty woman. She is entitled to masturbate to their heart's content.

I've had women use a vibrator on their clit while I was fucking them. Many women finger their clits while being fucked. What's the difference? Whatever it takes for her to explode is fine with me.

The best experience I ever had with a vibrator was sticking one in my girlfriend's ass while we were doing it doggy style. The feeling was incredible! There was the vibration, which I had never experienced. It made me realize what it must feel like for a woman to masturbate with one. But it also stiffened her vagina as I rubbed against it separated only by a thin membrane of juicy flesh.
It had the eroticism of performing a one man DP. I was possessing her completely.
We both came like we were possessed.

I found out that, even though we fucked as many times a day as we could between work, food and sleep, and sometimes for hours at a time, she still found time to masturbate. I thought, "You go girl!"

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Only encourages me to up my tongue game 😏 I got an ex of mine to start using vibrators because she'd fantasize so much about me, my tongue still felt better than any machine to her anyway.

jazminburchell03 · Accepted Answer

Yes continued regular use of a vibrator can desensitize you but no men should not feel threatened by it because clitoral stimuli is a completely different experience than penetration. Most of the time women can't cum from penetration only but that does not in any way mean that it does not still feel good or that our bodies don't crave it because they do.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I’m in an LDR so a vibrator is 100% necessary. However, it doesn’t compare to my boyfriend and it really makes me look forward to him playing with me. Therefore they make it easier for me to get off with him.

NickiB · Accepted Answer

I don't use any toys.  But I would think if continuous use would most likely make you dependent on it and could cause problems climaxing without one.

LesterJester · Answer

I wouldn't care either way... But of course if she preferred a dildo or vibrator over me and actual sex, then logically one has to ask themselves, why am I still with her?

Honestly, if she rather use a vibrator over having sex, then what am I still around for? Money and chores?

The same would apply if I preferred a sex doll or robot or whatever is out there these says, over my partner. If I preferred that over her, then why is she still around?

Having sex toys during sex can spice things up or help in certain areas, but when they start replacing you, then one has to re-evaluate what's really going on.

God_of_Thunder · Answer

Speaking as a guy; any man that feels threatened by a vibrator is just insecure.

There's no reason for it. It's a toy, not another man. With an open mind, a vibrator can easily be incorporated into a couple's sex life, and enhance it. Using a toy on your partner can be a lot of fun, and can help her achieve even greater pleasure.

What real man wouldn't want to use every trick in his arsenal to give his girl mind blowing orgasms?

hellionthesagereborn · Answer

I'm not threatened by it but after hearing more about them from others I am some what against them now. The reason is because I have heard women get desensitized by it, but I think that is mostly due to "lazyiness" rather then actual desensitization. What I mean by that is that using other means requires finess while the vibrator is the "brute force" approach. When you go that route I think some women have a tendency never to really try something else and thus tend to be less able to orgasm without it because they never really figured out what they like what they don't like, what muscles to tense to get what sensation etc. But I think if she doesn't have that issue they can be quite fun with your partner.

Enpassant · Answer

I think sex toys in the bedroom are good. However, my ex wife started to use one and the vibration was so intense, especially when put on her clit, that after just a few times using it that she couldn't get off without it.
Even when she would masturbate herself, the same way she did since her teen years, she couldn't even get herself off anymore, because she had gotten used to the vibration that the vibrator gave.

lightbulb27 · Answer

It reminds me of this... https://www. youtube. com/watch? v=stqG2ihMvP0 I don't know why... That's my answer...:)

ArrowheadSW · Answer

As a guy, I am not intimidated by a woman using a vibrator at all. In fact, I find it to be a turn on!

coachTanthony · Answer

Vibrators are my  "wingmen"

Dani_dany_danei · Answer

No I can separate sex with a partner from solo sex. I'll either want one or the other

Ripper_E · Answer

I don't think it's any different than a guy masturbating. Women aren't as easy as men though. It only becomes a problem when either prefers that over the real thing or have some issue with their partner and don't communicate it.

Femdom_Society · Answer

Men should be happy for women to fuck their asses with their vibrators.

Browser101 · Answer

I for one would not be threatened. I would use it on the girl with no qualms if she asked

Quidthonian · Answer

I'm not threatened by it. I would want to drive it for her.

Belfast34 · Answer

All depends on the size of the vibrator.

COMMODOREII · Answer

I have my own vibrator. 😜😎

Guardian45 · Answer

I can't answer, but I have an answer. Vibrators aren't a replacement for men, they are in ADDITION to men! Toys are a part of my sexplay with my ladies!