Have you ever sent nude pictures and had them distributed to others against your wishes?

[OlderAndWiser]

I don't EVER need to worry about this picture being posted online!

The digital age allows you to do things from a remote location without direct personal contact. If you want to ask a girl for a date (what you call "chillin'" or "hangin' out,") you don't need to call her and ask; you can just send her a text. If she says no, then you don't feel as embarrassed by the rejection. If you want to break up, there's no need to have a conversation. Just send a text and tell him that you are going to look for a "real man" to date.

If you are in the early stages and want to initiate some physical intimacy, there's no need to actually see each other and start fondling or groping; just send nude pictures! But there is a risk that, if the relationship ends poorly, your ex may share or post those pictures with people who you would never want to see you nude. Maybe you think you're safe because the picture doesn't show your face, but your ex will tell his friends, "Yeah, this is a picture of Kayla," and they will all believe him. When your little brother sees the picture, he'll recognize that the background of the picture is your bedroom or the bathroom that you share.

Yes, it happens. I have a client in a divorce case whose husband, after the separation, started advertising for a couple for swapping. He offered to send pictures of his "current partner" in exchange for nude pictures of the other couple. He was simply trying to collect nude pictures of other girls with the pretext of looking for a couple for swapping. Of course, when my client gave him the nude pictures, she never thought that this would happen to her.

Do you share nude pictures with dating partners? How soon in the relationship? Have you ever had those pictures shared with anyone else or posted online?

[CubsterShura]

I often hear things about my peers whose nudes got leaked by their petty ex boyfriends, and how these teenage boys have GROUPS CHATS where they share nudes, just a few months ago a girl exposed the group chat and boys who were its members. Scary thing is even if a girl never shared nudes a nude picture can be easily made digitally with normal face pictures, which is why the thought of my ex boyfriends still having my normal selfies scare the crap out of me even though I never sent an inappropriate picture. If I wouldn't show that much skin to a stranger guy in the picture that I took, I don't send that picture to him either. I don't care how harsh it sounds.

Yeah I could easily say that digitally manipulated picture isn't my body, but then it's not like I'll be showing my real body to anyone to prove that my body looks different from that picture. So yeah 🤷🏽‍♀️

[SydneySentinel]

I sent nude pictures of myself and I honestly don't think they were ever shared with anyone else.

Aren't there laws against that sort of thing though? "Revenge Porn"?

[OlderAndWiser]

Yes, most states have laws against posting revenge porn, but in Florida, it applies to posting pictures online but does not apply to showing the pictures or giving printed copies to others. I don't know, but I suspect that the law is similar inmost states. And, of course, there are people who violate laws every day. . . and that keeps me in business!

[Twalli]

Also if you give the pictures to another person and they upload it you can skirt the law since you didn't upload it.

[Aguysopinion4799]

Never, I haven't once taken a nude picture of myself nor ever sent one.

I have received one from a girl before though, I never shared it to anyone and when she came to her senses a couple weeks later, she came to me in class and asked me to delete it, I showed her on my phone as I deleted it so she had peace of mind, to break the ice I told her that she does have a nice figure though and we just laughed and went back to a normal friendship :)

I found out from her that her reasons for sending it was because she wasn't body confident and was relying on nudes and erotic pictures to get praise from people to make herself feel valuable, after a while she stopped feeling like that and I am so very glad that she now loves herself <3 :)

[Twalli]

The problem with that is that you can copy nudes from your phone to your computer

[Aguysopinion4799]

@Twalli Yeah but you need to be a jerk to do that -_-

[Twalli]

I do bbn it, if course I don't want anyone else to see my girlfriend naked, so it's for me

[Aguysopinion4799]

@Twalli What's bbn?

[Twalli]

Sorry. I use my phone and it sometimes adds in letters I didn't mean to. So it's a typo.

[Aguysopinion4799]

@Twalli Oh okay :)

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

I never took or sent erotic pictures of myself, but my girlfriend did make me pose or shoot some pictures of us both. She's an amateur photographer and loves capturing those moments so to say, but naturally we have a great deal of trust for each other and to not spill those pictures around.
As a side note, she did pose nude for a photographic album some years ago, but that was an artistic and professional thing, not intimate.

[laurieluvsit]

YES!

I actually let a boy take some pictures of me when I was in middle school that he said no one else would ever see.

My dad told me there are 2 things that you should never believe that anyone tells you...

1) The checks in the mail
2) I'll pull out before I cum

... now I know a third one... am I getting "Older and Wiser" too? ... lol

[OlderAndWiser]

Indeed, you are getting older and wiser, as I did, I'm sure. . . very gradually and imperceptibly. Many years from now, you will look back and think to yourself, "Wow, I've gotten older. . . but at least I;ve gotten wiser!" I would add a twist to one of the truisms your father told you: Never believe anything that a guy tells you when his pants are on the floor. :) :) :)

[laurieluvsit]

... :)

[2ndTryatThis]

Wow.. you’re hilarious and pretty cool from your posts. Just followed

[Daniela1982]

You take and send nudes you get what you get.

[musicbrain5]

I don’t take nudes, so that’s never been an issue!

[Katiewild]

Yeah i have had nudes posted online.

[Hotboy_booblover]

Hi can I have some

[xkildy]

I have sent a nude picture before and I don't think it was shared girls really don't share pics it's the dumb males that do.. most boys are useless toys that think it's funny or some crap to show a buddy his girlfriend naked pics

[mistixs]

Great question. The results further motivate me to never send pictures like that.

[ImSparkly]

Yes and learned my lesson that once something is on the internet its there forever. File take down notices one place and it springs up somewhere else.

[Mcluven]

Never include your face

[EmmaMary]

No and obviously No.

[soniablonde]

Yeah i have but i didn't really mind.

[Loveinveins]

Omg that's so young... :(

[Loveinveins]

:O..

[soniablonde]

@Loveinveins guess so!

[Loveinveins]

Stay safe. But I'm glad you are proud of your body at least. Good luck

[WhiteShoulder]

Yeah. Once. Never again.

[Kaneki05]

I wish (hahha you see what i did there) but all serious nope never and never would. Unless if it was my wife and we had like a time when we didn't see each other much.

[Avicenna]

I always advise people never to send nudes for that very reason. My ex wanted a nude pic of me and I'm glad I never sent one.

[MementoMori_]

If you are stupid enough to give nude pictures to ANYONE, you deserve what you get.

[BillieJean1070]

No, and I never will.

[bigcountry330]

Yes I have

[Corerue]

Nope, play stupid games. Win stupid prizes.

Not sorry but WHY would you send something so personal to someone you HOPE doesn't post it especially when there are a ton of sites that might offer money for pictures of you?

[justawhiteman]

I sent a few nudes to my now ex everynow and then... she asked for them and I would never send unwanted pics thats wrong.. she forwarded them to one of my other female friends accidentally..

[Browneye57]

Nipple blocker... ;)

[OlderAndWiser]

Just following the rules!

[_SOARER_]

In high school yes. I learned my lesson haha :)
Tbh, I am good looking so, it didn't really affect me much. But I was black mailed by a girl for close to a month :/

[Titanic1912]

Only to my girlfriend.