If your partner tried to make you orgasm by stimulating your genitals with their hands/fingers, how long would it take (if you didn't delay it)?

1) "Genitals" includes vagina, vulva, and clit for women, & penis and testicles for guys.
2) your partner is ONLY using their hands/fingers to stimulate you, not their tongue.
If your partner tried to make you orgasm by stimulating your genitals with their hands/fingers, how long would it take (if you didnt delay it)?
I've never had my genitals stimulated by my partner's fingers/hands
Vote A
I typically don't orgasm from having my genitals stimulated by hands/fingers
Vote B
It typically takes me less than 4 minutes
Vote C
4 to 8 minutes
Vote D
9 to 15 minutes
Vote E
16-29 minutes
Vote F
30+ minutes
Vote G
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It can vary for me sometimes, and depends also if it's like the first sexual touching? But if there's no delaying it, it can be very fast for me. Embarrassingly so lol. I'm so excited and sensitive at the start, that it doesn't take long at all. But, if I delay it, I'll last longer as it goes on.

  • With bare hands and no lube, it's probably impossible, and it would certainly result in some chafing. With lube and practice, maybe 10 minutes if she is also stimulating me visually and mentally.

    • It can be done without lube. You just have to hit the right pressure points in the right order.

Most Helpful Girls

  • sometimes on the rare occasion if he gets it just right or I'm in the right mood it will be minutes-- under 5. Otherwise it's usually pretty difficult/timely

  • Kinda depends on a few factors, how well they know what they’re doing, how turned on I am beforehand, how many times I’ve reached an orgasm already.

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  • Just a few minutes if we were making out already.

  • Less than 3 mins.

  • If he knows what he’s doing less then it’s less than 10minutes

  • He can usually get me off in about 5 minutes when he fingers me.

  • No hand job or oral for me... they have never made me climax or even got me anywhere close to it. I can only take care of it myself or have a regular penetration sex.

  • My husband can easily achieve this in around 4 - 8 mins.

    • Seems he got long fingers.. hehe

  • I never got a good orgasm from a handjob by someone other than my hand because no one knows my rhythm like I do.

  • 30 seconds to a couple minutes.

  • I voted 4 - 8 minutes. But probably closer to 4. When I was younger it would have definitely been less than 4.

    • I'm 32 now, it's crazy to think a handjob would have had me under 1 minute when I was younger. More like 15 or more now. Wow

  • Usually by the time a partner gets her hands on it we've been making out and I'm turned on already.
    Yes I get turned on by kissing. !

  • probably around 5 mins

  • Depends on how hot the scenario is. Hotter scenario faster cum.

  • Hand jobs are fucking amazing! They can take on all forms of stimulation. Faster, slower, tighter, looser, slower or more tactile. I love hand jobs. Hail to the hand job!!! lmfao

  • Deperds on her hands

  • Anything from 2 minutes to 40 minutes.

  • I'd probably cum as soon as she put her hand on it

  • Well, I don't really know. I guess I would just have to find out once I get married.

  • It depends how does she stimulate: continuously or with breaks (to tease).

  • 25 to life.

  • The whole reason for guys getting the snip snip on their foreskin was to defeat what you just asked, and because I’m reluctantly circumcized the answer is like 20 to 30 mins.

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