Why can’t my boyfriend cum from a bj? Long question?
so I actually enjoy giving oral. I’m a virgin and of course me and my boyfriend want to have sex but most of the time I give him a bj and he will finger me/My ass. First time I gave him a bj it was my first time giving him a bj and he loved it (We met in March so this was April) the same night I gave him a bj again (We were sleeping over a friends house and we got carried away) I ended up giving him another bj. Problem is ten minutes earlier we had eaten food and ended up puking on his D***. So I was mortified. He likes to joke about it now but everything I give him a bj I think about it and he (Like every man) likes to shove my head down his D*** and fast! So when I can feel myself “Gagging “ I stop. Problem is I have no problem getting him hard in my mouth. Problem is keeping him hard in my mouth + he can't cum. I’ve gotten him close to where I thought he would cum and then he gets soft in my mouth and then I try to get him hard again and my mouth now hurts because I have to suck him off again for ten minutes. So a lot of times I get annoyed and stop.
he also says I use too much teeth. Which I think it’s a lie. but I do think I use too much teeth when he shoves his D*** down my throat and I can feel myself start to gag so I pull out.
I NEED tips!!!
a.) how to have a better gag reflex
b.) why can’t he cum?
c.) using less teeth
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