Why are guys always so horny?

[Anonymous]

guys express how his girlfriend is declining sex. He says that every night he tries to initiate sex and his girlfriend doesn’t want to. Common “excuses” as he puts it is, “I’m not in the mood,” “I’m tired.” “I had a rough day,”

I say those are reasonable to not want to get intimate. If she’s not in the mood, then she’s not in the mood he complains “You girls are never in the mood to fuck.” And I ask “Well why are you always in the mood to fuck? We’re not here for you guys to have sex with.”

Guys expect sex on a daily basis and some multiple times a day. Why? its ridiculous that they expect us to be all ‘hot and ready to go’ when they are. I don’t understand why they get so pouty when we reject their advances. If we’re genuinely not in the mood then i don’t see why they get upset over her saying, “Not tonight, babe. I’m not in the mood.” But if she was purposely withholding sex from him then I think I understand?

They go on to ask me why we are never in the mood. I simply explain that we’re just not and that we can’t just turn it on and off on command. When we’re getting ready to go to bed, we want to sleep, not fuck. When we’re watching a movie and cuddling, we want to know how the movie ends, not fuck. When we’re doing some sort of productive activity (example: girlfriend is washing dishes and boyfriend just comes out of nowhere, grabs her by the hips and starts to grind on her), we are trying to get said activity done, not fuck.

I saw this w/ my s/o. he’d try to initiate but I just tell him that I’m tired and want to sleep. When we’re cuddling while watching tv, he’ll try to get touchy but I just playfully tell him to knock it off.

For the most part, girls give in to not hear their bfs complain which is what I’ve heard other women do.

We want a healthy sex life. We don’t understand why you try to have sex every chance you get and the part that makes it worst is the annoyance that follows when we say no. Even if you don’t say/show it, we can tell you’re not happy when we say no to sex.

[SueShe]

The thing is that a very large, if not the majority of guys, let themselves be subjected, yes even be mastered by their sexual hormones testosterone. They are basically just slaves of them rather than to be master of them.

To them, their libido commands their life and they don't want to oppose that addiction, because let's face it, it is an addiction just like drugs, cigarettes, gambling or any other addiction that slowly takes possession of your life.

It is sad that our screwed up society accepts and promotes that condition which is dictated by the porn industry. People believe that the scenes depicted is how it should be in life, with all its sexual deviances and perversions.

Unfortunately, girls are solely seen as objects for their sexual needs and not the human being behind it. We are being objectified, demeaned, humiliated and seen just as a vulva/vagina and a pair of breasts. It is sad that in more than 60,000 years, the view of women has not changed an iota by those guys that abuse them for the sole purpose to satisfy their sexual pleasure.

[Alexandrubaschet08]

I never have a girl that say "i'm not in the mood", me as a boy i told them from the beggining, i whant sex evry time that i whant, it can be evry they, evrywhere, if they whant the same from me. I have moments when gi girl wake up at 10am and me at 5am and we go to sleep afther middle night. In that moment me as a guy, I whant to sleep, but if they where in the mood and me not then "fuck the sleep, my girl need me", afther wake up in 1-2 hour, go to the job fuck up from no sleep and having sex, I whas looking for sleep only when she whas at the job and me no, or when she whas visiting her family, in that moment i sleep and satisfact my "no mood for sex".

WE A MANS WE ARE VERY HORNY, YOU GIRL ARE LOOKING SOOOOO GOOD IN OUR EYES THAT WE GO INSANS (is a gift for you and a curse). THE PLEASURE THAT YOU GIVE TO A MAN FROM SEX, ACTING, TALKING, LOOKING IT CAN MAKE US NOT SEE ENITHING ELSE THEN YOU GIRLS

[AustinMan]

It's just how some of us are wired. He needs to find ways to help her with things so she's not so tired. Fatigue is a big killer of female libido.

[JC451]

Sounds like you have a low sex drive, as well as a meh personality if you think ALL guys are like this because you dated one guy who was.

My ex-gf wanted to fuck like 8 times a day every day and that was too much even for me. Also, sex feels great. Must be so hard for you to have someone who is atttacted to you and wants you.

[0112358]

It’s fine to want sex every day.

It’s fine to only occasionally want sex.

Just people with those feelings are a bad match.

At a societal level, are there enough people of each type to pair off? No, but that’s a different problem.

[Ripper_E]

Not every guy is like that. I'm not saying there aren't many that are, but there are many that aren't. Many women are that way as well.

[Iron_Man]

The same way you are

[MisterAnon69]

You probably haven’t met the right guy yet. My girlfriend was pretty quiet and shy to even hold my hand but now she's a freak who can’t stay off me. When I want to have sex I don’t need to tell her she can just tell I want her and I can turn her on. Just like she turns me on. You aren’t supposed to ALWAYS be ready, but as partners you’re supposed to spark off each other.

[QuietRunner]

because we want sex

[Asker]

But why?

[Gaurav0047]

Because we don't want to stay as virgin forever.

[SureWhyNot22]

I think we are always horny because women are just naturally sexy. It's hard not to be turned on with all you amazing women everywhere we look.

[kavein11]

The same reason ladies are always horny

[SueShe]

I guess you did not read the entire text according to your reply...