Yes or no - sex before marriage?

[kimx33jz]

[Anonymous]

Sexual compatibility is a critical piece of a successful marriage. Why would you leave that to chance with the person you plan to spend the rest of your life committed to?

Try before you buy.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

I Voted A
Sex is very important in a relationship, so you should know what your partner is like in bed, before marrying them

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Thanks for MHO

[Agem123]

Sex is a need. So, definitely yes. Who wants to get stuck in a marriage where none of the partners know shit about it.

[CarliMarsdens]

Yes, of course. Waiting is a recipe for disaster.

[Amyth20]

A safe sex yes !! No safe sex Hell nooo

[GoodEnoughThen]

If your ego can handle that your partner is considered by some cultures (not mine) as "unpure" before marriage then go for it. Getting it out of the way would take some of the pressure off and allow you to see if you are compatible sexually. Waiting for wedding night, or until sometime after, is setting that night's expectations way too high and wedding night could even end up being a disaster. Let's get real, it's 2019! God, first night marriage sex is so overrated, just like first time ever sex. No big deal. Beyond the person I was with and where we were, I barely even remember the first time.

[pumaOH24]

You have to do it at least once or twice to make sure you are compatible in that department too!

[Secret6620]

No! 🖤

[markscott]

I also live in the 21st century, as we waited for marriage, and were very glad that we did.

[EmmaMary]

Definitely.

[SydneySentinel]

No. But no casual sex either.

[Haelaeix123]

Im gonna give a solid yes

[Ripper_E]

there is nothing wrong with waiting until marraige, and I respect it, but not everyone is going to get married.

[_SOARER_]

This is a hard one
Sex is now expected before marriage but it doesn't make it right
I really think the idea is to wait until marriage

[Creepazoid]

Yes.

[Iron_Man]

NO

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[Iliketurkey]

I meant yes but oh well lmao... or did I?

[Jamie05rhs]

Absolutely not.

[Kezzz]

If you no you're gonna stick with her then sure why not.
If both want it, then sure
Otherwise, nah

[DWornock]

It is almost a moot question because since the 2010's only 5% of brides are virgins. However, per the National Survey of Family Growth (NSFG), they also have the lowest divorce rate. ifstudies.org/.../

[LuWe22]

Yes sure.

[RebeccaSJ]

I did it.

[beatcoock]

Cool! 😎

[JennieF]

Yeah! I was 17 my first time.

[john1512]

If it feels right why not