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Is that okay if I ask my man for a second round of sex?

Me and my guy have been together for 2 months.
We have sex once every single day. He always lasts for 40 minutes-1 hour, but i'm never unsatisfied. I want more sex or longer duration. Am i normal?

But i'm worried that he will feel offended thinking that he couldn't satisfy me.

I think we both have high sex drive, but i'm just worried he's offended and tired to fuck again.

Have you guys felt offended when your girl asks for more frequent sex? Or 2nd round?
Updates:
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Sorry, i meant i'm never satisfied
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which one is better, saying that "you're great but i want more sex" or honestly saying that "babe.. honestly i'm not satisfied, i couldn't cum , can we do it again?/ can we fuck longer?/ can we have sex more often?"
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  • Wait you couldn't orgasm after an hour of sex? Asking for longer is ABSOLUTELY unreasonable. You realize that the average time for sex is less then 15 minutes right? Now another round of sex isn't really that big of an issue (though when your pushing an hour it might be, especially if your asking regularly), but the real issue is clearly either YOU are the issue either because you are not communicating with him or that you are physically not as involved (keegals for instance, strengthening the vaginal and pelvic floor muslces, learning which ones can produce more pleasure or you don't experiment with yourself (masturbation) in order to find out what is pleasurable and what is not and/or what muslces to tense when etc.) OR he is terrible at sex and just happens to have one of the most impressive endurances ever (that's porn star level so its hard to believe he doesn't have some skill). So asking for longer is not what needs to happen, what needs to happen is better communication. When you masturbate does it take you longer then an hour to orgasm?

    • When i masturbate, i always reach climax after around 15-20 minutes.

    • Okay, so what do you do that gets you to that point? Are you using a vibrator, your fingers or dildo? Is their clitoral stimulation, penetration, both etc? Knowing what one works is going to dictate what you need. Again, I'm inclined to believe that its probably clitoral but again, what do you do that works and what do you do that works that he ISN'T doing? Because again, an hour is an insane amount of time (not saying men can't go an hour, I have as most others probably have, but to go that long CONSISTENTLY, that's actually impressive on his part and wanting even more well, clearly what ever is happening isn't working (again, I'm guessing your not telling him what you want because clearly his stamina is not the issue).

  • You should absolutely ask or tell him that you'd like more, but you should also understand if he's not able to do that, or not able to do it every day, etc.

    I recommend approaching it like this: "I love having sex with you so much and I'm totally willing to do it as often as you want it - twice a day would be no problem for me!"

    The other thing is: you need to figure out what you can do to help yourself along so that you CAN cum during Round 1. Do you need to play with your clit (or have him play with it in positions where you can't) while fucking? Do you need him to talk dirty, pull your hair, spank your ass, tie you up, etc? Do you need a vibrator? Butt plug? If you aren't able to cum with 40-60 minutes of sex, I feel like you need to be helping things along in one way or another - and there's nothing wrong with that! I'm sure he'd much prefer that you were getting your orgasms, and obviously he's putting in some serious work to make that happen, so help the guy (and yourself!) out a little!

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  • Talk to him but not during sex. I'd start with how good he is and how much you enjoy time with him. Confess that it's not easy for you to cum, if that's true, since he's not getting it done. Tell him the sex is great and you want more of it. Also, coach him on what he needs to do to get you off.

  • If you have to ask you don’t have a man.. he should be willing to please you in the bedroom anytime you want! I would

  • Just tell him

  • Sure! If that's what you want.

  • thats is the dream of all guys on EART to be asked "can we do it again?/ lets doit again!/ lets go for round 2!/i'm gona fuck the sould out of you baby!" When my girls whant more one of them say this
    me: OMG that whas a good one
    her: hmmm... really baby (pervert flashing eyes)
    me: yes, really
    her: i think i can make you feel even bether... (pervert flashing eyes)
    me: how? (shoked)
    her: (huge me and make us cudle, in some time she whas teaseing me like foolishing me to put it in and afther a time she decided to insert me) LIKE THIS BABY ;).
    me: OOOOOOMFG!!! (round 2)

  • Just be honest. If you're evasive about it; he might think he's doing something wrong. A woman with a healthy sex drive is normal. I'm sure he'll appreciate the compliment

    • I don't know how you guys would talk to each other but whatever works without making him feel like he can't do the job. Something subtle so as his feelings don't get hurt, and you get what you want

  • No guy is offended about his woman wanting sex. Period.
    "Hey hot stuff... let's do it again." :)

  • No, that's not really the kind of thing you get offended about. At worst it's the kind of thing that you grab a glass of water and ask how to make the sex better for her.

  • Don't ask, just initiate and enjoy. Why ask?

  • Im good for about 3 minutes tops and a refractory time of about 30 minutes for a second nut im spent after round 2

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