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My boyfriend edges himself before sex?

He used to have problems cumming with me because he said he masturbated too much. I always thought it was because I have a bad pussy. He stopped masturbating so much and he cums during sex everytime now. But I recently learned that he has been edging himself before sex with me.. is this why he cums during sex now? Is he afraid that I won't be able to make him cum so he thinks he has to do that? I feel like shit about myself. Maybe this is the only way he can cum with me.. why is my pussy so bad that he has to edge before sex to ensure that he cums?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • before haveing a seriuous relationship i whas masturbating very much, i whas in the same situation whit my girlfriend like you're boyfriend, it take like 31 days for the balls to recover afther only one time cuming, recover 100%, it take me like 1 month, no masturbating, and have only sex, i make my girlfriend cum all the time but i whas on 0 (zero cuming), afther a time, i get more intens senzation but olso no masturbating eny more, afther that month evrething whas ok, i whas cuming from her puss, mought, lap dancing, evrething whas good, but you need to stop you're boyfriend to masturbat and star to tase him all the time

  • He was probably masturbating to completion before sex messing up his sex drive hence not cumming and now is just edging from what your saying.

    Some men haven't got the reserves to actually cum multiple times a day but can get erect again still.

    I don't believe you have a "bad pussy" being on the pill has more affect on your state of mind and sex drive than physically changing your pussy. And that mainly changes your experience not his.

    If being on the pill is affecting your arousal you might want to add a bit of lube to your activities it'll feel better for you.

Most Helpful Girl

  • He's more than likely edging so he can stay hard longer. He's actually being considerate of you because females notoriously take longer to get warmed up. It has absolutely NOTHING to do with your "bad pussy" and you need to work on getting those negative thoughts out of your head.

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  • I don't think it has anything to do with you having a bad pussy or not being attractive. He might just be conditioned to the grip of his hand which will always be tighter than any pussy. Maybe finish him with hand jobs, practice on that and you can feel pride in making him cum that way. Not all guys can cum from sex just like not all girls can.

  • Okay he probably masterbate a to often but if you don’t mind me asking what are you doing sexually like tell me how you act and positions and whatnot like give me a play by play of how you try to please him

  • Is this the guy with the bad pussy fetish again?

  • He's already given you the answer. He's become so addicted to porn that normal sex doesn't do it for him. This problem is on him, not you. Edging to porn before having sex is just a temporary solution and will only make it worse. He needs to lay off porn, back away from it and come back to a normal view on sex.

    Short answer; it's him, not you!

  • There is no such thing as bad pussy.

  • Why do you think it's all you? He might be thinking he won't cum doing sex and tries to make sure he does so you don't feel bad. Has nothing to do with you.

    • Why would he think he won't cum during sex with me unless my pussy is bad?

  • Why is his inability to cum your fault?

    • Because I have a bad pussy that isn't normal for girls my age. I'm on birth control pill which messes with my hormones and that makes my pussy even worse. It's not normal.

  • Maybe he's edging himself while thinking of you. Isn't that a good thing?

    • I'd say he's looking at porn. I've caught him doing this before. I'm just not good enough.. maybe he's afraid. that im. not gonna be able to make him cum?

    • Maybe bring some porn into your sex lives. I know other couples that do that. Maybe he's into some kinky shit that he's scared to ask you to do.

  • I have had this issue before edging helps control the time it takes to release so he may be doing to help himself go longer don't take it to heart I'm sure your pussy is great for him

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