Dating in this culture if for cucks and beta. It's as simple as that. There is nothing worth dating, or committing to. If you do commit to, date, or have a girlfriend then you are living in a fantasy and fooling yourself. It is what it is...
You do not forgive her, you are just unwilling to be honest with yourself because this society / culture shames men for having standards.
Personally, I wouldn't even breath the same air... let alone date. Just something to take note of. It's possible that some of the sperm has lodged itself in the tonsil crypts and remained there for a very long time...
Good luck.
Lots of women feel the same way. As long as they don't have a dick in their pussy, they are virgin and everything else is okay. She is certainly not the only gal that would give you a low number, but that is by not including oral. If you want to stay with her, then stay, but now you know that she can be sucking guys off now and still consider herself true to you.
She's playing you. Sounds like she's willing to treat you like a doormat, so just refuse to be one. Leave her and find someone who actually values your relationship.
Fucking tell em Genos 😤
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You are dating a slut. Is that okay with you?
I’d be worried about stds
If this makes you uncomfortable, then she is not the right girl for you. It doesn't accomplish anything to slut shame her. But remember that not all women behave this way. You can find someone else whose views on sex are closer to yours, if you wish.
Why does he have to be a random asshole? What if the situation was turned around? Would they all be random whores to you? A person's past is the past. You are overreacting and should be more concerned with the present/future.
A person’s past is a good indicator of the future. He will marry her, have 3 kids and one day come home with her going down on the pool guy. He should run while he can!
she admitted to cheating and you're okay with it.
sounds like she gives a hell of a beej.
ah wish i could edit my comment. yeah she didn't cheat, but you aren't exclusive with her, she's just a hookup and you caught feelings. case closed.
You must be Nathan Explosion.
Was she sucking them off to pay your rent or hers? There's a difference, dude.
Meh if that's what u see as long term then have fun
Think about the relationship you want and the kind she's looking for, also if she's still talking to the other guys she's dated before or given oportunities to in a sexually funny way than to me it's disrespectful, but in all seriousness you can't control the other person just because you feel insecure. Once again you need to talk about the type of relationship your in because to me it feels like she thinks its an open relationship while your committed.
You could stay with her and use her for the great blow jobs until you find someone better. Than you can leave her and not feel bad about it. She is a whore, just use her for sex, thats all she is good for anyways.
The thing is, we don't have much sex. Maybe that's also my fault, but we have only done it a couple times and it is something we need to work on.
No man you're not overreacting. We all understand how you feel. She's a massive slut man. You either are cool with that or you aren't; sounds like you aren't. I don't blame you. Decide for yourself what your options are moving forward.
Per your update: Dude why are you with her?
like the only reason you fall in love with someone is because she constantly has sex with you
Dump her. She respects no man.
Have you been tested?
No you're not overreacting, honestly lemme say this girl prolly not wife material, but she still your girl, you got hella sexual benefits, y'all can do whatever nasty shit you want till you move on to someone better amd committed, she obvi doesn't care the way you do, be a man dont let her do this, fuck her like you mean it and then leave whenever you want man
No you should break up with her. Her mouth shouldn't be an airport for men's weiners.
Pretty simple, actually:
If it's OK with you and OK with her, then it's OK by definition.
If it's OK with her but not you, you have an ego smashing problem.
If it's OK with you, but not with her, you've got an even bigger problem. DSYDIC
It's cheating if you think it is. Some girls consider porn cheating. I read an article that said about 66% of people say their SO has cheated on them. The number was so high because the definition of cheating depends on the person. If she really believes blowjos aren't cheating, she shouldn't have cared to know you got them from other women (not that you did).
we weren't exclusive so it simply isn't cheating. But the situation just kinda annoys me. Maybe it's childish but I just keep thinking about 40 random guys blasting a load in her mouth. I have been chatting with her, knowing she was on a date with another guy. Now I know that somewhere that night, she didn't answer at a certain moment cause she was busy sucking a random asshole off.
When your not exclusive then you and her can do what ever you want. The second you are exclusive that when it becomes cheating.
It's 100% ok if you're ok with it, my dude! If you're not, it's not ok, and that's also ok! Make sense? hahaha
She don't want date. She just want to suck dicks. İf you wanna give your dick into her mouth then hang out with her. İf you want a serious relationship then break up with her. Cuz she will cheat on you again.
But she didn't cheat. We were not exclusive back then.
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