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Do you find the opposite gender's genitals to be visually appealing?

By "genitals" I'm referring to dick or pussy.
Do you find the opposite genders genitals to be visually appealing?
I'm gay or asexual
Vote A
I'm straight/bi & I find the opposite gender's genitals to be visually appealing
Vote B
I'm straight/bi, but I don't find the opposite gender's genitals to be visually appealing. I only ever find them sexually arousing because of the thought of sexual activity
Vote C
I'm straight/bi, but I don't find the opposite gender's genitals to be sexually arousing at all. Another body part arouses me though
Vote D
I'm straight/bi, but I don't find the opposite gender's genitals to be sexually arousing at all. I'm not aroused by the sight of any other body part, either
Vote E
I'm straight/bi, but I don't find the opposite gender's genitals to be sexually arousing at all. I don't experience sexual arousal in general
Vote F
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  • This is gonna sound kind of paradoxical and contradictory, but for all the arousal I get when I'm naked with a hot girl and she has an amazing body, I've gotta be blunt: most female genital areas look like a tumor covered in moss. The labia majora and labia minora specifically generally look like some types of fruit... with hair.

    Now, I will reflect this kind of criticism back at myself by saying that penises are their own malformed lesion of the body. I have lived with mine for 27 years and I'm relatively comfortable with it, but when I see a porn video and guy's dick is out, it is downright hideous. The camera and lighting do wonders for sexual desire, because it is honestly a miracle that anyone is happy with their "equipment". We are all built with either (unless you have the unfortunate condition of intersex, in which case you have both) and they each have the appearance of being put there by accident. Penises look like someone couldn't decide where reproduction would come from, so they just jammed a rod between the legs, because there's basically nothing else going on down there. On the other hand, the vagina is like the bare minimum of effort. "If the man has a rod, where does it go? I know, take the female and put a hole between her legs. Problem solved!"

    • Omg thank you for being so honest.. I always said that the vagina is so hideous.. I have never felt comfortable with mine even though there is no hair

  • Voted "I'm straight/bi & I find the opposite gender's genitals to be visually appealing." Which is the long way of simply saying "yes." Have to say, the question certainly covers a lot of options.

    That said, it poses something of a false dichotomy. When I see my gfd's pussy it wildly turns me on. Even now just thinking about it I am... well... you know what's happening to my genitals at this moment?

    However, how I view that is not unrelated to my desire for sex. Not to mention how I feel about her generally and how I think she looks. I have no idea how I would separate that out.

    When I see her genitals, I am seeing her naked and I am thinking... SEX. We do not tend to detach the things from the things that arouse us from the thing itself.

    So put me down for a "Yes" - oh, and as being straight within the parameters of the question. However, for all the options the question proffered, it oddly missed a lot of the nuance. Don't worry, though, I still gave the question a thumbs up - for what it did for my penis if nothing else.

Most Helpful Girls

  • As someone who sees genitals rather frequently (I'm a nurse who works at post operative care and frequently help dress/undress patients. That being said, I've become accustom in seeing some I find attractive and some I find, average or "meh", it like any other body part, like an attractive face/figure/legs...

    If I saw my bf’s arm on it’s own I probably wouldn’t be like "damn, hottest thing ever!", but when I view him as a whole, that's super hot - same goes with his penis.

    I think it's more so the idea of what it can do rather than the visual apperance of the penis alone. Like I get really turned on seeing my bf’s penis get harder and harder, and knowing it’s going to be inside me or in my mouth soon.

    • I like the way you put that... what’s some of the best stuff that you have seen as a nurse?

  • Some dicks are prettier than others. Yes, I describe dicks as pretty. If you've ever seen a pretty dick, you know exactly what I mean. And some dicks are so ugly looking I am physically repulsed. It's as if I literally shrivel and recoil and my eyes hurt.

    As far as arousal goes, I can only be aroused at the sight of a dick if it's attached to the man I love - no matter how good looking it is, it does absolutely nothing for me if it's not my man. It actually grosses me out seeing another dick ready for sex if it's not attached to someone I'm emotionally attached to. I'm shuddering just thinking about it.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • They can be but it mostly depends on the circumstances. When they are all smelly and hairy like a spider, no. I'll just say what is good for the goose is good for the gander. If you expect then you also give.

    Do you find the opposite gender's genitals to be visually appealing?Do you find the opposite gender's genitals to be visually appealing?

    • If you expect what?

    • Hairlessness.

    • Makes sense

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  • No. Not at all. I like tacos and churros, plus I like grapefruit and oranges and tacos. So I say bring it on, it's lovely and I'll eat it.

    • Gay answer.

    • @roland77 if ya don't like tacos or churros I can't help ya.

    • Good, because I appreciate the female genitals a lot.

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  • It's very appealing as Long as he doesn't have some weird disease

    • Are you German?

    • @malik25 yes

    • In Germany where you from? Because I was living near Bonn!

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  • Logically no. Hormonally yes.
    Is there such an option for vote?

  • I’m straight, but I love to look at a man’s package, relaxed or strong. I find some more attractive than others.

    • What's the biggest you've had?

  • I like looking at my husband's package if that's what you mean.

  • Nothing better looking on earth then pussy. mmmmmmm mmmmmmmm Good. I seriously feel sorry for women because a dick looks disgusting.

  • Beautiful, unique Butterflies, every one!! :) :)

  • Uh, yes I find them quite appealing.

  • I'm straight so yeah. That's one of the reasons I enjoy female masturbation videos. Especially the "Up Close" ones. Visual stimulation is important.

    • Another sense is used! And Cunnilingus uses 4: Sight, taste, smell and visual. Awesome experience!

  • I think a penis can be super hot, especially if it's long and thick and cut so I can see the head shape. If it's veiny that's even better.

  • I love me a good hard dick. I find girls genitals attractive too

  • I only find them appealing in a certain setting on a person I am dating and have feelings for, random dick is kinda disgusting to me.

  • I'd need to see them regularly but my gut reaction is the folds seem strange to me

  • Can’t we just say yes or no?

    • No is my answer

    • Huh you are telling you don't find the BBC attractive? 😱

    • Yup I’m definitely saying that

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  • Yes, I do.

  • Yes bigtime. I am very visually stimulated. Everything is visual to me...😎

  • Body hair is the only thing that arouses me

    • I have plenty lol. It's good to know there are women out there that actually like it.

    • Yesss 👍

    • So, if i shave my body hair, but i let *you* keep it, would you still be aroused? Or does it have to actually be on me? Like, if you save up, you can make a pillow out of it or something. then you can be aroused, anytime, and I won't be wasting perfectly good body hair... I'm kinda kidding, but it's something i always think about when I shave. One time a girl told me to be mindful of where i put my hair that has been shaved because it still affects me subtly... so don't flush it in the toilet or anything like that. I took her seriously, so i always try to put it in a bush or something and i hope maybe a bird can use it for a nest decoration, maybe. For the record: I prefer a vagina that is moderately to completely shaved, but its mostly because i don't like hair in my mouth, I also like the look of the vagina when a girl is standing there naked, and i can at least see the two little lips there. that looks very cute to me. hair just looks like hair. However, I LOVE shaving a vagina. It's so much fun, I feel like I'm Indiana Jones and I'm uncovering a temple in the jungle! and i love the feeling of a nice soft ball of freshly shaved pussy hair... if only i had enough to make a pillow! :D Other body hair on a girl is no concern of mine. other than I feel sad for girls if they shave their body because they think they have to in order to be attractive. Once, a girl actually apologized to me because she didn't shave her upper thighs... and she had just come from Maine in the winter time. I couldn't believe that society had made her feel apologetic about her on body in natural state. I should have asked her to donate it to my pillow-making collection.

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  • I’m straight and I find the opposite gender’s genitals to be visually appealing sometimes.

  • Yes I do!!! :)

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