The man I’m with (he’s 8 years older than me) always makes sure I’m taken care of first. And more than once. Honestly you’re just gonna have to bite the bullet and be an adult and just bring up that your needs aren’t being met.
Stop havimg sex with him and find a dude who respects you. This isn't a generation thing. Its an 'hes an asshole' thing
What I always did is that I made sure the woman got off first, then I would take it home. This is a big reason I did cowgirl - it lets her control her orgasm and then, we can go missionary (or not) and I then I pop.
That's kind of a dick move, and if he's only focused on himself than he's just using you.
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He needs to get you off first otherwise he’s a selfish jerk. Like who does that smh
You have every right to be angry. He’s a piss poor selfish lover and you need to tell him that
Get out the whip!!
Your over 45 and you don't know the answer. This sounds like a 15 to 18 year old would ask.
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On my mom's profile haha
Then why don't you just ask your mom. Beside your mom will see this question anyways. Beside my answer is your being used for sex
He IS supposed to feel bad for being selfish. Put yourself in the first place sometimes.
Unfortunately that’s how most men are 😏
But there are some that wouldn’t hesitate to return the favor! 😊
Try to talk to him. Could be a generational thing but it isn't something that can really be tolerated long term. Many older men still try do their best with their partners.
Dang I just saw you are younger. Same answer just nix the older man part. It isn't a generational thing then just him. A man should have some concern that you are having as much fun as he is having. That comes down to respecting women whether it be a long term relationship or a casual relationship. If you aren't getting it after you talk to him then he might not be the one. If he is just ignorant about it then just give him some guidance.
A good guy will feel bad if he feels like he isn't able to get his partner where she needs to go. Maybe too short or not hitting the right spot etc. A jerk will get annoyed at the prospect of having to do more work.
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