That is a complicated question. I'll do my best to answer that.
First, let me talk about how I feel about when I cum in my partner's mouth. If she spits out my semen, I feel vaguely rejected; but if she swallows I feel deeply appreciated and accepted, because some of that semen will be digested and incorporated within the tissues of her own body. This brings on a sense of unity and bondedness. It doesn't matter whether I am in love with my partner or she is just a random hookup; a similar dynamic always holds.
When I ejaculate into my partner's vagina, the possibility of accidental pregnancy sometimes looms in the background. This is less so today, than it was in the past, because most of my partners these days are no longer fertile due to aging, but ut it is still sometimes an issue.
When the prospect of unwanted pregnancy isn't an issue, yes, this always leads to a deeper sense of connection. But if I am not confident about the birth control we are using diminishes that good feeling proportionately.
Finally, there is the case of a woman who I would actually *want* to have a baby with. Ejaculating inside her even when using effective birth control always felt amazingly close and bonding.
I've never been in a situation where we were actually trying to induce pregancy, but I use to fantasize about that quite a lot during sex with partners I was crazy in love with and wanted rear children with, and cumming inside my partners was always the best and most intimate sex ever, despite our use of contraception. The less confident I was in the effectiveness contraception, the hotter it was.
Today, my hottest fantasy is fairly vanilla: cummung together bareback while looking into each other's eyes and saying "I love you".
Why? It's the connectedness.
I don't think so. It feels extremely good though.
There is however a negative psychological effect on the girl because she will feel he "colonized" and "exploited", her body, and she will expect to be paid for his usage of her vagina, otherwise she will become bitter, angry, depressed, and will feel "raped and worthless". Women view the penis as a weapon, and the semen as the bullets, that's why they're so fearful of rape.
It's complicated. I have heard that guys who still have their foreskins absorb hormones from the woman that help them bond, and certainly the woman always gets hormones from the guys. But psychologically it also ups the trust level, which can help bonding. When my boyfriend cums in me, he is trusting me to make sure I'm always taking my birth control carefully, and I'm trusting him to stay with me if my birth control fails. That by itself makes us closer.
Basically if a girl lets him do that he would prefer that so he might stick around more or have more sex but it’s mostly for physical and psychological pleasure and not love or anything like w
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!What about the effect on the girl? I feel closer to him when I receive cum inside. I've read that semen can have anti-depressant effects. Not sure if that's really true, but I think we both feel closer to each other, at least in that moment anyway.
By letting a man cum inside you're effectively carrying part of him around with you. A good analogy would be a catholic taking bread and wine at mass. I would agree it increases bonds between both of you but not necessarily sexual ones.
Yep, until gravity happens.
To me, very much so... I love my husband so much and I love the thought of having some of him inside me and the fact that I could be getting pregnant with our baby.
Yep I agree.
Unofficially I would say yes there is, somewhat of either an emotional connection or attachment to the experience and sharing it with him... but I’m not a scientist or anything :o)
I believe there is a greater release of oxytocin, which bonds the people to some degree, and it strengthens over time.
It releases a chemical in your (his) bran that makes him tend to fall in love with you.
I don’t know about anyone else, but the first time my boyfriend (now husband) came in me definitely made me feel more connected to him.
It is not just psychological. There are hormones and pheromones in semen that have a physical effect on the woman making her feel closer and more trusting toward her partner.
Oh yeah. It's psychological, emotional. When a guy cums inside her. He is giving up a part of him for her. They call it he "dies" for her. This is why we feel so connected and loved when women even like to swallow it or want us inside. It's a full connection.
There can be, but there is more of a connection the other way around.
Yes, I always feel closer to my partners after we get to the point in the relationship where they’re shooting inside me. It’s just feels so much more intimate to have him reach orgasm in my vagina and to know his sperm is inside me. I don’t know how else to explain it. It’s definitely a sexy and powerful psychological thing. I think it also shows trust in your partner, which has a bonding effect.
I find it very intimate. I think it definitely makes you closer to them. For me anyway, maybe not all guys?
One way to get close to the experience would be to get a dildo with ejaculation effect warm up some lube to use with the dildo, masturbate to orgasm then squirt the dildo 3-4 times and see if it changes the experience being filled with warm cum substitute.
On a budget try similar with lube in a syringe don't squirt it all at once again 3-4 squirts.
I’ve heard that it can.
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