Guys, do you prefer a dominant or submissive woman in bed?

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Most men say that submissive women just lay there and they find it boring BUT I've also heard men say that they are turned off by sexually aggressive women.
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Im a bit surprised because now- it seems like the roles have been shifted. Is it safe to say men collectively prefer dominant sexually aggressive women? I understand you guys said both but if you had to pick one answer, which would it be?
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  • I LOVE being in bed with a Dominant Woman! I'm a Masochist and I've been a submissive slave to a number of Women during my lifetime! I was always allowed to wear my Women's Ticket Shirts (see photos of my Ticket Shirts) while being Dominated, put into Bondage and being whipped! This male, (me) kneels before Female Authority!

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    • Submissive 100% for me! It is such a sexual turn on being submissive to a Woman!

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  • Submissive for sure. A little masochistic streak is really good aa well.

    Why do you ask?

    • Most men are now saying submissive women only lay on their backs. It sounds funny but true.

    • As a person, I understand how frustrating that could be.

    • I disagree with your conclusion. Those that know what they're talking about like subbies because they surrender, sometimes only after a "struggle," something I absolutely love.

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  • dominant women for me though can't find a girl who takes what she wants in bed. its like finding a needle in a hay stack. and i like women that way because im the exact opposite out of the house

  • I just want one that’s a bit kinky. Doesn’t matter in what way.

  • I prefer an active, non dominant woman.

  • Like most guys have said, I prefer a women to have a little of both.

    It doesn't take much to not be boring. Saying something like "let me ride you" is more aggressive than most girls I've been with.

  • This is a tricky question. Most of the girls who claim to be sexually aggressive in bed burn themselves out after like 10 minutes and I take over, anyway. I'm perfectly fine with it, but the end result is that I don't really have a preference.

  • Yes I do

  • I prefer a woman who is mostly submissive, but can be dominant sometimes

  • I am happy with a woman being herself and comfortable. A dominant woman has no problem taking the initiative. A submissive woman has no problem being dominated.
    Although a woman willing to step out of their comfort zone is cool too.

  • A little more dom than sub

  • I like medium. I like to flip back and forth between the two. I like to hold her down with my hands and blindfold her and fuck her the way I want. but I also like the same thing done to me as well.

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