Guys, my boyfriend came early and acted a bit weird after what do I do?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I had sex and I could see he was really turned on as we haven’t had sex since I was on my period and we have sex everyday. We started and it was amazing and then he said he was really sensitive and was close and as I was saying no keep going he accidentally came. Which is fine we have a great sex life that stuff happens but straight away he said you’re so hot why do you have to be so hot for and kinda backed away a bit. It sorta seemed like he was embarrassed or was worried he disappointed me but when I asked if he was okay he played it off like he was tired

I know him well obviously and I knew it was more then that. We went to gym and eventually he snapped out of it and was normal again. In future though what do I do? It was just weird he’s never reacted like that after sex before I didn’t know how to handle it or what to think of it

[Reaperbot666]

The more backed up a guy is. The higher the chance that first round might be quick.

However depending on how backed up he is. He can be able to go again in a short while and last his normal time frame.

In the future when you have not engaged in any kind of sexual activity. Maybe help him fire off his first round before penetration. Since he will most likely be very sensitive.

While he recovers see if he’ll play with you a bit to get you even more horny and likely to orgasm. So that when he is ready to go again. You can both finished within a decent amount of time.

[Asker]

We had sex yesterday so I don’t think he was too backed up but I do know we have both been in the mood all day so by the time we saw each other after work we were ready to go

[Reaperbot666]

possible he was in a heightened state of arousal. to where he might have been ready to finish quickly. however like I said before if you let him play with you a bit. with any luck he should be able to recover and go for round two.

[leonidas69]

1. Don't tell him to keep going, he was clearly having a hard time. 😂

2. Try to get him to finger you, give oral, use toys on you more beforehand so he can still see you cum. That will make him feel more accomplished even if it happens.

3. If he cums early. Maybe you can keep the mood alive for long enough that you can make him horny again and get a second chance.

4. Don't talk about it. The more you make a big deal about it, the more it'll crush him.

🤔 I think that's all you can do/stop doing. Anything else, is on him.

[AustinMan]

He was really disappointed is my guess. Just give him a little space when that happens and things will be fine.

[Twalli]

It's really embarrassing when a guy cuns quickly because if a girl can get off on penetration, we know we weren't able to please her.

FYI, if you put a towel below you when you have sex you can avoid stains while having period sex. So it's possible to still have sex even if you're on your period.

[CubaPirate]

He just need to man up and get over it. It happens to us all from time to time. There's nothing wrong with losing control and getting over excited occasionally. Just take it as a reflection of how hot he finds you! :)