How to behave on a first date if I want him to take me seriously?
I've met someone over the internet around a month ago, we've been chatting on and off and we decided to meet, he seems genuine but kind of not completely interested? I don't know he will only chat with me if I start to chat with him first and he says he can't tell for sure how he's going to feel about me until we've met face to face. And he seems distrusting of women in general, on the other hand I've never had a boyfriend, a sex life or been in a relationship and I'm almost 30 years old. I was being honest to him and I was being a bit too open and I told him that I'd like to hug him and kiss him and stuff like that without being too sexual, I hope... but I'm a weird girl and I'm not all that pretty and he's quite handsome.
I'm afraid he will not want me once he sees me it feels like he's going to want to ditch me or something. I have zero confidence and it's going to be my first date ever... and I don't want him to see me like a horny loser... I want something long term, I want him to like me... should I kiss him or not kiss him if he wants to kiss?
What is it that I must do for a guy to take me seriously and not see me as a one time thing? :(
Updates:+1 y
Also I'm extremely shy and awkward around men and I don't even know what to say but I don't have the dorky look I look like a rocker girl instead, it's so weird I know. So my looks can be deceiving. Should I meet him or not? Please give me a piece of mind :(
Most Helpful Guys