Girls, Why do some girls like to be spanked or get there butt smacked and why do guys like to do it to girls?

[ivy3688]

I don't get it. I think it's a sexist fetish. I think when a boy smacks a girls butt he is saying that she is his property and/or that he wants to dominate her. I think it is physically violent and also degrading. The mark on the butt is the most degrading thin. I don't understand why guys like doing this, and thats the best reason I can come up wtih.

Some girls like to be "Spanked" or "punished", I don't understand this either, this is also a sexist and weird fetish

Some girls like it due to daddy issues. Thats really weird, and the poor girl needs treatment not encourage her to have a boy hit her in a "safe sane" way. Thats a weird, mentally ill persons solution.

I was spanked and hit as a child by my dad until I was like 16. So it triggers me when I see this. My dad left handmarks on my butt.

When a boyfriend tries to smack my butt sometimes I yell at him other times I just explain to him what happened in my childhood and that smacking my butt reminds me of that and i think its weird. One boyfriend kept doing it anyway and left handmarks on my butt, I punched him in the nuts and told him to never talk to me again.

[zaharaa]

I dont know a lot of guys like it and it's not my favorite or anything but I kind of like it so I let them do it

[ivy3688]

I dont like it cuz i think there trying to be dominant.

[zaharaa]

it's alright, I'm fine with that

[ivy3688]

why do they like to do it

[zaharaa]

I'm not sure, but it's not a bad thing in my eyes

[ivy3688]

is it weird if it reminds me of my dad spanking me

[zaharaa]

lol sort of yeah

[ivy3688]

why sort of

[zaharaa]

well you shouldn't want to think of your dad while getting spanked in a sexual way

[ivy3688]

i was kinda abused and my dad left marks and to me its technically the same thing

[zaharaa]

my father used to smack and hit me and my brothers, doesn't change much for me

[ivy3688]

so its only a little weird and not tht weird and do other girls feel that way too

[zaharaa]

maybe, I'm not sure

[ivy3688]

i think i kinda like this now. because i can get my boyfriend to do it in a safe way, and it can help me cope with my daddy issues.

[zaharaa]

I never really had daddy issues but maybe it would help cope with it

[ivy3688]

my boyfriend told me guys just like girls butts nd like too smack them

[zaharaa]

that's true

[ivy3688]

why are you so nice to me its cool im jw people in reali life say im weird or have issues

[zaharaa]

I learned to put up with a lot of shit so I could converse with whoever

[ivy3688]

a girl I know told me it stimulates her vagina cuz its so close to her butt is that normal so she lovveesss to be spanked

[zaharaa]

it ain't like that for me

[ivy3688]

if it can have that effect i think its sexual abuse for parents to spank there daughters especially in the teenage years waht about you what do you think on that.

[zaharaa]

I dont think so

[ivy3688]

so even though a girls butt being smacked might arouse her vagina cuz it close to her butt u dont think its abuse to spank a teenage girl why not

[ivy3688]

zaharaaa

[zaharaa]

what?

[zaharaa]

its not lol

[ivy3688]

please explain how its not with the evidence I've gathered

[zaharaa]

I never got that feeling from spanking lol

[ivy3688]

yeah but i was saying some girls clearly do it seems

[zaharaa]

fair enough

[ivy3688]

so if some girls do dont u think we shouldn't spank the girls

[zaharaa]

so do you think it's fine if you got smacked instead of spanked?

[ivy3688]

no but r u ok with a girl getting aroused by her dad spanking her

[elizamichale1]

Well i like it but not too hard though
N its just a sexy n kinky thing to do i guess

[ivy3688]

what do you think of my reasons for aversion to it

[elizamichale1]

Well you are quite right to oppose it based on your reqson honey and even apart from that like you i also hate seeing when they say punishing a woman or getting too hard or say the bondage... i dont like that

[ivy3688]

i think i like it now and i wa try it again and now it feel good and it helping me cope with my past abuse my boyfriend will smack my butt and it will turn me on my boyfriend will smack my butt and leave marks and i know im his and he's not abusing me in a safe way is that weird

[elizamichale1]

I don't think it is

[Apple1996]

Getting spanked turns me on

[ivy3688]

do u understand my aversion to it

[Apple1996]

Yeah I see why you dont like it. That's totally fine some people get triggered by certain things