Does dirty talk make you cringe and / or laugh?

I can't take dirty talk seriously, and some of the lines either make me cringe super hard, or I find them outright hilarious. Not sexy all.

Usually my mental responses are either:

"Are you trying to make me bust a nut or bust out laughing?" 🤣

or

"Ewww…."
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Only bad dirty talk makes me cringe and/or laugh. If the guy knows exactly what I like during sex and he tells me what he intends to do with me, then he could easily get me in the mood. For example, he knows that being on top is my favorite position. If he tells that he would let me climb on top and ride him for as long as I want, that would turn me on. If he tells me that he wants to bend me over and hit it from the back, that would also turn me on. However, if he were to talk dirty in corny metaphors, I would likely either laugh or cringe, and tell him to stop talking and let his actions do the talking instead. The dirty talk has to be natural and not sound forced. For instance, if you tell a person to talk dirty and he starts to say things that just happen to sound sexy, it could come out as unnatural, forced, and cringy. However, if the talk is genuinely based on what you want to do and know what your partner likes, then dirty talk is a turn on.

  • In the middle of something I would say ssh. Double entendres in general conversations are more entertaining.

    https://www.youtube.com/embed/h5nhyFFSweU
    • Double entendres indeed. lol.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Since a lot of experience we got of dirty talks comes from porn, in France for exemple it's way more about calling the other slut or shits like that which I really can't do. If I insult a woman it's that I'm really mad and I really think what I say and even then it will be more like "stupid" than "slut" or "bitch" those words shouldn't even exist. So no, I just physically can't do dirty talk but if she does I'll enjoy it a lot.

  • No. It kinda cheeses me off just a tad if someone does it CONSTANTLY, though. Like, I've got a friend that says some form of the word, "fuck" almost every other word! I don't care that he uses the word, I just think he uses it WAY too much!! But, I think he just might not even be able to control himself.

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  • I like dirty talk in English (thank god my boyfriend is british) but it sound so funny in german and it makes me cringe so bad lol

  • Oh, it can depend a lot.

    Some people are just not meant for dirty talking.
    And sometimes it's all about what's said. Something is cringey as F while sometimes it can be rather hot.

  • I feel like when you're into the mood of wanting it really bad, it's not cringey to me at all. If I'm not in the mood, however, it's more awkward than cringe. Plus it depends on what they say

  • In the moment of passion I can play along but online just feels awkward

  • Sometimes I find it funny and other times cringy.

    https://www.youtube.com/embed/-IvFuvjJDkE

    I loved this part of the movie (40 year old virgin)

  • Because you’re not turned on enough. If you’re not at the right level it’s all ridiculous/funny

  • both lol

  • Oh god no I hate it I feel cringey

  • Hopefully you're talking about online stuff and not bedroom talk.

  • It depends on the talk

  • Lol I had both, depends on the person. There are some that do it gracefully, others are too blunt and gross

  • I get caught up in the moment, but when I hear myself in sextapes I cringe 😂

  • It's better as an audio clip, then you can hear the need in their voice.

  • if the woman means it and does it well it is fantastic. even if they are slightly faking it or moaning unnecessarily then it is terrible

  • It makes me hot when it is done well

  • Laugh. Too stupid for me. Same for role play.

  • My wifes a phone sex operator and I can't keep a serious face when she's working

  • I don’t mind in the right setting with the right person.

  • Oh, dirty and overly vulgar sexual talk makes me cringe really hard.

  • Definitely makes me laugh

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