I assume your definition of Sexting is not sexting as i use it (I use it to describe sex over text/voice calls) but instead means sending nudes. Compared to that i 100% prefer phone sex, voices do a LOT for me and the dynamic is incredible. A nude is much more risky of it getting leaked and will turn me on for about 10 seconds before i have seen it and want more. I can't imagine having 20 minute sessions with just pictures.
And yes, the typical dirty talk of "If you where here i'd fuck you so hard right now", "How hard?", "Soooo hard!" is extremely cringy and ineffective. But that isn't what good sexting (As i call it) is, its describing what you want the Other to do, not what you would do. Pleasing them by using their hands and body combined with your own (voice/) creativity or in case of a video chat your own body. A well crafted sexting session will make you instruct her how to please herself according to her likes while experimenting with her reactions to find out what works. While she does the same to you. Roleplay on top of that can make things more interesting, the best sexting i have ever done was a roleplay with a cheerleader. We wen't for an Innocent girl (Angel) meets Demon setting that played inside of an invaded dream of the girl. That way i had every tool disposable and my goal was to corrupt her innocent soul by making her Want to have an orgasm in front of me and please me any way i liked to obtain it. She meanwhile was playing a character that was the most innocent a girl could be and someone who would absolutely never give in. She played her part insanely well and resisted my attempts for a long time (Although she did cheat with breaks in between as she found it hard to resist) it lasted literally hours with an explosive finish once i had won the battle of our minds and worn her down to a horny mess desperate to cum.
I won't forget that session, and that kind of psychological stimulation of the battle of the minds, her fighting her desires while i try my best to tease and inflict them goes miles beyond what any picture could ever do.
With phone sex you don't have to keep the phone plugged in to hold a charge. Phones don't need batteries.
I guess sexting if those are the only two options. But only if he's really good at it and descriptive. And can type and spell well: bad grammar just kills it for me.
Phone sex is cringy to me.
Facts. I’m a grammar nazi myself
@Anonymous sometimes phonesex can blow your mind if it is done right lol.
Lol... Fair thing! And also that should be gradual and well set up? Unlike just bang bang
Sexting is 100% easier than phone sex hands down. However, I like the experience of hearing my partner moan 🤔
... I'll go with sexting lol
Well that goes along the lines of sex tho lol but yeah I get you
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I like both but lean toward sexting more
I've burnt out on both but phone sex was more interesting
Sexting. Phone sex is too difficult
Agreed 😂
Same. I find it cringe lol if I had to choose, I’d say sexting. It lets me think about what I wanna say or hide away from any embarrassment lol
Then I guess you would be better off not doing it with someone you know lol
Phone sex is really cringe and I end up going off topic
Agreed 🤣
Omg you are that kind of a dudeee 😆
Care to explain?
First you seemed really sympathetic until I saw all you sex related questions. Do I really have to explain what that tells me about you as a person?
A sympathetic person? The hell. What does that have to do with sexting and all. I don't know. I haven’t been on much to keep track and remember details
For me its sexting
Neither. Prefer real sex, but between the 2, phone sex.
Phone sex
Good choice provided the other one knows how to do it well
@sidhk69 he does
Umm sexting please lol
Ageed
lol ikr
Every tried phone thing?
Now that I think about it 🤔
Sexting 👍
What's wrong with liking both?
Sexting all the way Lmao
Reason?
@sidhk69 Holding the phone and like specifically talking into it is harder than just texting
As in gives u flexibility to use the hands elsewhere?
Only sexting
I like both
Sexting and just discussing general sex topics with the guy. It takes the pressure off
Bang on
Phone sex is hot!!
Sexting is way better. Phone sex is too expensive... besides, you have much more time to think while sexting, you can use all the creativity of your mind.
Expensive?
Yeah, you know, the bill from the phone operator... the longer you talk, they charge you more 🙄
Uhh... I was talking about phone sex with someone you know. Not some sex talk site
Honestly I don't care. Both are fine, but sexting is better tbh
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