It does wax and wane, tbh. It is not a given, or a fixed or guaranteed thing. Some people, and couples, like it and do it more than some others, and some that were very into it at one time, well they can change too. But look at it this way - humans are fickle, emotional, unpredictable, all that... but as much as they can change for the worse, they can also change for the better. So if you are not getting as much as you desire, take it on as a psychological or social experiment. Tweak the variables. See what you can do to interject a new aspect into your life/routine/relationship. I know sometimes it seems thick as mud, set in stone, whatever you want to call it, but nothing is actually fixed. And maybe it's not a good idea to just live in complacency anyway. Life is long, but also too short for that. We all crave 'happiness', but happiness is also sometimes a delusion, and we have to be realistic that there will be highs and lows. I don't believe in giving up on people. Often (though I realize not always) the more effort you put into things, the more you get out of it. And though the brain constantly, subconsciously, looks for patterns (probably as a way of processing incoming data so it can stop working and relax instead), at a more advanced, cerebral level, we are also highly prone to boredom from the mundane. The little buggers that we are, we want both comfort and security, and excitement and novelty.
You have to make it 1) known that you would really like it if she gave you more attention in that way, and 2) do something new to make it interesting/appealing again, or, to a lesser degree, a quid pro quo type of situation. I don't know what that is for you, but I'm sure you can think of at least one thing. Just keep asking yourself, 'What can I do that's new/different?'
Thank you, thats great advice! ... number 1 i sort of managed to do last night, she's really close with her sister and i am with her and we were over her house and i mentioned i not had one for two years after conversation sort of went that way, and her sister seemed shocked and shouted at her sister to give me one.. so.. ha.. at least she's aware.. as for two, more difficult.. things are perhaps not set up best at the moment but i think i can work on something
Oh that was a perfect opportunity! And now you have her sister on your side. That will help. People can be very influential.
It isn't really age but personality. For me it isn't given like kissing but just with someone close. You might bring it up if it isn't happening on a regular basis for you.
I have sadly and was denied :D
Let's be honest, we all expect it, but some women, believe it or not, don't like giving oral.
I haven't encountered one yet, but there are some.
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<3 so lucky!
At my church it’s a requirement.
i guess am in the wrong church :D
Yes. I think it is. I'd rather have penetration.
Don't think I could live without it honestly
What @Joker_ said.
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Thank you. I think your comment deserves MHO as well.
You're welcome and thank you
It would seem many do expect it to happen.
I enjoy giving it and I'm not classed as young...
Oral sex is expected
If there is intercourse, there is oral. 100% of the times.
I sure hope so.
:( not looking good for me!
You don't like that?
I do, but its not expected in my relationship!
It's a must for me.
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