Does this person have a point on women and intercourse?

[Anonymous]

[zollo]

I'm only 3 minutes in and I though I was already 10 minutes in, I started to slowly zone out as she was talking. I have a feeling that I won't agree with what she's going to say but i'll try to watch the rest.

First I'll note that this women talks about sex as if a man is forcefully assaulting a women who is helpless to the act, which is obviously not true. Sex is consensual so even calling a man penetrating you as "invading" is just too much. Invading implies that it's being done unwillingly but a penis would have a much harder time going in if the women receiving it wasn't turned on and lubricated enough in the first place so there's nothing to invade.

Yes women have a greater risk when having sex, but so what? Does that mean we should just never have sex? Of course not!

She calls sex a "self destructive behavior", and "A brutal violent act", Like bitch who hurt you? 🤣

Broooo I just can't with her, the deeper I go the more I cringe. She seems like a man hater for sure, and the whole "Women should rule the world, would we have all this violence and destruction with women in power?" Yes, of course! Just because women are more emotional doesn't mean that poverty would be erased and murder wouldn't exist. No matter how hard she wants to believe that all women are just beautiful creatures a lot of women are assholes, manipulative, vindictive, attention whores, and that's just how it is.

she fuckin' crazy my dude. This is why I can't call myself a feminist anymore because people think i'm like this, Like has it ever crossed her mind that women PARTAKE (not submit) in sexual intercourse because we enjoy it, how it makes our partner feel and it feels good? Like she's the type of person who probably doesn't believe in trans gendered people or believes it shouldn't exist because that just means more men on the planet.

[basicallybasic]

What a toxic piece of shit... She gives real feminists a bad name. I can't be too mad at her though, because everything about her tells me something horrible happened to her at some point and she hasn't been given the proper tools to help deal with it in a healthy way, and has instead clung to extreme views to help cope.

[brennanhuff]

she might've been sexually assaulted in her past, which I feel for her and would feel bad. But she needs therapy or something, because having a toxic view on men won't help, nor will it help her to ever heal emotionally. I once saw a quote before where hating someone or holding a grudge towards a person or people is like drinking poison and hoping they hurt or something. It's annoying when radical feminists look at sex that way but also from the perspective of women as victims and only women. But like men can't be harmed from a woman raping a man. Men are not invincible and can be emotionally and physically harmed from a woman having non consensual sex with him too. I know it's rare for women doing that, but just saying.

[basicallybasic]

Totally agree

[AndySaker]

@basicallybasic can you pm me? We talked a while ago 🙂

[Izumiblu]

I thought that was obvious