He says im too tight?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I attempted to have sex. We had everything going great or so I thought until he tried to put his penis in me. It went in a few times but slipped out. We tried a few more positions but we just gave up. Ill admit I was turned on very much but he wanted music to play in the background.. it just took him a decent while to play a song. Then i got turned on again but not as good as before. When he was entering me it started to hurt and i tried to just convince myself that ill get turned on but i didn't. So is this mainly my fault? That i wasn't turned on enough for him to be inside of me? Will lube help my situation? Or more foreplay? Or is there something else we did wrong?

[AlmondSoup]

You're not gonna like the truth but you 2 ain't sexually compatible. Shitty situation when you have feelings for someone, but the longer you try to make it work, the more frustrating and unsatisfying it will be. You like him enough to not enjoy sex with him for a long relationship? I don't know if you can have a talk and both agree that it's not gonna work, but honestly it's just a matter of time before somebody cheats or you break up. Sometimes the truth sucks😬

[Anonymous]

I'll chime in as a guy w somewhat of a big dick. Is he above average? Does he spit on it, go down on you? You can spit or suck his thing to get it in better. Have you tried wett lube brand? Great stuff. It'll help. And to echo the other posts... You may not be sexually compatible... Or you may simply be a woman that needs more lube, natural like spit or unnatural like what you buy.

[BlueDream]

He needed to work you up some more, it's the dryness that makes it feel tight.

[ThorJunior19287]

Tight tight is the best. Don't worry sex is meant to be fun. Relax next time

[crmoore]

Your state of arousal will absolutely affect how elastic your vagina is. So in a sense it is partly your "fault" but I feel like that word is too accusatory. It's entirely acceptable and expected for a girl in your position to not be as aroused as other, non-virgin girls. It's hard to stay comfortable and particularly aroused your first few times. I'm not saying you are, but make sure you're not beating yourself up over this. I can assure you, you don't deserve that.

[ND4SPD31]

He needs more experience with working with someone like you.

[mattstiffler]

Dont worry, its happend many time depending on a situation, also happened to me too. I tried lube for insiding into her vagina. After few seconds of inserting she turned on again and we will enjoyed a lot till reached orgasm.

[Djaay]

It's not you... he's inexperienced af.
These damned boys these day dont understand shit.

[Asadi]

You two just needs to do foreplay and enough lives, and don't distract yourself from sex next time

[BarbieDollT]

Definitely more foreplay

[MisterTee]

Nothing is ever wrong with too tight. I love it.

[Asker]

Thank you for your opinion. But we didn't actually get to have sex and that was a bit disappointing because we were both excited. Do you have an opinion of what i did wrong

[MisterTee]

I dont think you did anything wrong hun but I do have some advice. Message me

[rajesh_leo]

Ask him to give finger massage to your pussy and lick your pussy so that you get wet inside. Then it will be easier for him to insert his penis inside your pussy.

[bobbyluvs2lik69]

He's a dummy a tight pussy is perfect

[fat_loves34]

prolong the foreplay

[Anonymous]

No such thing as too tight.

Tight and loose are terms that prudes and sluts use on each other to make each other feel bad about the other, and how one is slutty and the other won't have sex at all.

The vagina expands, to fit all penis, even if it's uncomfortable at a point

[Anonymous]

You should find someone that turns you on gets you wet