Why is it that small dick men always brag about their dick size and leave you disappointed?

I've noticed that men who brags about their dick size have small dicks. Big dick men downplay their dick size or surprises you with their long thick dicks. Why is that? And by big dicks I mean like 8-10 inches long with thick girths.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Great question and one I chuckle about quite often. Over the last 20 years of having sex with a good number of different guys up to the time I met the guy who is now my husband and love of my life it was crazy some of the things guys would try conveying about the size of their penis. I worked the entire time at a bar/restaurant, much of it as a bartender. I dressed very prerogative and thus received many requests for "lets have a good time together" with some trying to impress how that big penis was in their pants. Almost 100% of the time one's I connected with ended up having only an average penis (which by the way was fine if they knew how to treat a girl and have good sex with her) but the guy in many cases was a total looser at sex. Either no foreplay, or a can't get it up, or instant ejaculate.
    I did connect with guys who were LARGE, but the surprise came only after we were naked together with only one exception. Had this one hot guy I had been flirting with for several days at the bar and I had no clue about his size but he was cute, funny and seemed to be very much a gentleman. It was one of those flirty days he was with several of his friends from work and it was easy to see we were seriously flirting when one of the friends got me aside and basically told me he had a huge dick. That turned out to be no exaggeration and he was the gentleman I thought he was. I also was with a few guys with huge dicks who might as well of had no dick because they certainly didn't know how to do anything for a woman with it.

  • Yeah I have the same experience! I guess the guys with the smaller sizes have the feeling they have to make up for their size and impress their partners by sort of convincing them how good and big they are. In my experience the largest men are the ones that are most insecure about their size.

    • That's so true. All the larger men I know actually think their dick is small it's so strange.

    • My boyfriend explained it to me how he felt. It was more that he’s so insecure about the size because “normal” sized ones don’t look as weird as thick and long ones. When he was showering with other men during gym class they also stared at it because it looked so different. So, not having an average size was a reason why he was laughed at it, and therefore became insecure about it.

    • Hmm that's interesting.

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Most Helpful Guys

  • It not size of dick or woman breasts on how you enjoy sex or not.
    It is how they warw you up and perform on the moment.
    But like I say to a friend of mine,
    Before or after sex women win, but during sex, that's when Men will. Even short dick men.

    So what do you want from sex (get feminist sex)

  • Don't really think this is always true but whatever. People have their reasons.

    Dick size is such a boring subject. Majority of men around the world are within two inches in size of each other. Just think about that instead of what guys say.

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  • Lol its just the male experience and condition. They're all liars. ESP about dick size, even though they'll eventually get figured out lol but honestly I don't think size matters as much as BEING CLEAN does and kNOWING WHAT YOU'RE DOING! Lol. technique, hygiene... soap and water... soft and hydrated skin... for men, try using Man1 Man Oil for the best penis skin.

  • This is so true! Guys like to tell me that they have "something big for me" to try to get me excited, but I've learned not to take their word for it. One of the nicest guys I've come across was someone I first met online. He never asked me for nudes, which made me a little skeptical because it seemed weird and I thought maybe he was avoiding asking me for nudes because he was afraid I would ask for nudes of him and thought that maybe that meant a small dick. But when I finally got to see him with his pants off, I was pleasantly surprised. Speechless, you could say. I asked him if I could measure his dick and he said yes. He was eight inches long soft and eleven inches long hard, about seven inches around. That's my favorite cock ever.

  • My husband downplayed his size way before we got together until the night we both lost our virginity to each other and i literally nearly fainted. 5 years later and im still stunned by the size, when he is soft he's around 7.5 inches and 10 when hard, so you can imagine im always staggered yet he maintains it ain't a big deal. Bless his heart 😭

    • You're so lucky!

  • Because the bragging builds them up and reality sends them crashing back down.

  • I’m small I don’t brag about pleasing

  • I met up with a guy on a dating site, and had told me he was average. Lol

    I showed up at his house later that day.

    Yeah, he was average if he was a Shetland pony. 😆

    But I totally get what you mean.

  • Small guys almost always lie or measure from the balls haha.

  • haha! I brag about mine but I like showing off my little dick!

  • Because despite what girls say they like, when actually within reach of a larger dick many girls get scared and worry it will hurt.

  • yeathey catfish you and once you see it its not even fun to look at one guy told me he's over 10 inches turned out he was 10 cm

    • Sounds like me, I'm 10cm

    • @ineedafcuk i won't even feel you lol

    • Yeah not any woman do

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  • I don't know ask them personality when they disappoint you

  • I usually makes jokes about having a small penis, as I feel it is. I have been told different. Can't say I have ever been a disappointment either.

  • I guess you could say, fakes attract other fakes.

  • They try to be more than they are. I have never measured but I know I am about 5-5'5 hard... I don't care if that is an issue. I know how to use it

  • i dont brag. im small 4.9 inches and i will probly dissapoint.

  • How come women don't brag about having vaginas the size of the grand canyon?

  • Those men are idiots who think about their size too much because it is irrelevant

  • They want to feel better about themselves

  • This question made my day lmao

  • I’m thinking, this is one good riddle :)

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