Every hole is a goal... never heard that before lol
Guys actually don't choose. We have the illusion of choice itself but we don't actually choose.
Women have more options and are far more likely to get laid if they want to, which is why men get rejected repeatedly.
@Hunter7754 What do you (a 25 year old) actually know about life lol!
@Iron_Man200 Since when are you Mr. Know it All! Are you speaking for ALL women in the world? ! Lol!
Because anybody with even half a brain knows that in general it's a lot easier for a woman to get laid than it is for a man.
@Iron_Man200 No! Who ever said that was just playing the victim mentality!.. And it's called being a sexist person! It's just a biased thing! Trust me, I've seen some ugly dudes get laid and even reproduce! I work in Customer Service so I know what I am talking about. I come into contact with your average Joe and Jane constantly!
Then you're either a liar or are delusional. If a man goes on a dating site and puts on his profile that he's looking for sex, he'll be lucky to get just 1 message a week. But if an average looking woman went on a dating site and said in her profile that she's looking for sex, she's gonna get tons of messages every day. People have known this for thousands of years. It's shocking how dumb and deluded women are these days that they will deny the obvious.
If you honestly think dating is the exact same for men as it is for women, try this. Create a tinder account as a girl then create one as a guy and compare the amount of messages you get. Multiple people have done this experiment and every time, the girl is the one that gets hundreds of messages.And considering I have dated, I know what I'm talking about. I went through at-least 20-30 girls before I actually found the girl I'm dating now. Most guys go through 50+ women till they finally find someone to date. Dating for men is 90% rejection and 10% success which means we have to give it 300%. Its practically a full time job. It's one of the reasons why many men stay in shitty relationships. We don't have the option to just find another person willy nilly. A girl can go on tinder and usually within the first day, she'll have guys messaging her. Also, not sure why you're being so rude, I'm just simply pointing out that dating for men is much different than dating for girls. And what I said about men not choosing women is true and backed up by anthropology. Look at most animal species. The males compete with each other and try to win over the female and impress her. The female CHOOSES which male she wants to mate with. So in that regard, men do not actually choose. We have the illusion of choice.
@Hunter7754 She won't admit it because she doesn't want to acknowledge that women have it easier when it comes to dating. Women hate admitting that they have something easier than men.
@Iron_Man200 "She won't admit it because she doesn't want to acknowledge that women have it easier when it comes to dating. Women hate admitting that they have something easier than men."Maybe my experience has been different that's all! That doesn't make me delusional and a so called liar! ... I think this more depends on the age of the woman! A woman in her younger days can definitely have more options when it comes to choosing a partner but I think maybe when time goes on, she'll either have to choose from bad quality men! The ones that are pyscho, or divorced, or a single parent! ... And most (NORMAL and MATURED) people aren't just looking for sex, they are also looking for a relationship so that they can spread their genes (reproduce) and have a family! I know this because I work with the public and I see it all the time! Even ugly guys have families! ... Just because we disagree on something doesn't make my answer less true! ... That is the problem with people arguing against their personal biases and with your answer, you are speaking like it's the absolute truth! ... Did you even know about the phrase "exception to the rule"! Maybe my life is that way! Anyway, we are getting quite personal here so...
@Hunter7754 You know it's funny, I do agree with the anthropology thing a little because I did study it. However, there ARE some species where it's the other way around! ... What about bees? ! They have a so called "Queen Bee" and so do ants! ... https://www. youtube. com/watch? v=CSGDIaxJj14 in this particular case, it wasn't true either..
@Hunter7754 Unless you're literally prepared to settle for whatever comes your way, you're still choosing as a man though. I approach a girl. I choose her as the one I'm going to approach. She then chooses if she wants me or not. We've both made a mutual choice.
@Kkaos Men have the ILLUSION of choice. Even if you're choosing to approach a woman, in the end, she is the one that chooses you. She's the one that decides whether or not to accept your advances. So in that regard, the idea of 'choice' is nothing but an illusion.Women are the ones with options because men are the ones that approach women, not vice versa.
@Hunter7754 That implies that men never reject women and women can have whoever they want. The man a woman might "choose" might never even approach her because he hasn't "chosen" her.
@Kkaos He's not saying that men never reject women, you stupid ass clown, he's just saying that women in general have more options and find it a lot easier to get laid than what a man does.
@Iron_Man200 Let's have a little look again shall we?"Guys actually don't choose""She's the one that decides whether or not to accept your advances""Women are the ones with options because men are the ones that approach women, not vice versa."He is talking in absolutes. "he's just saying that women in general have more options and find it a lot easier to get laid than what a man does." <-- Absolute bullshit. What you've said there is true, but that is NOT what he is saying.Men have a choice on who they approach and women have a choice on who they choose from out of the men who have chosen them. Simple as that. So please explain how I'm a "stupid clown" for simply going off word for word on what he's saying whilst you've had to completely twist what he's said in order to sound reasonable and valid.
@Kkaos Ironman actually hit the nail on the head. Saying women are the ones that do the choosing doesn't mean women NEVER get rejected. Its pointing out how as a general rule, women have more options than men. Much more.And what I've said is backed up by anthropology. If you look at most animal species, it's the female that chooses the mate, not the other way around. It's the entire reason as to why male species of animals tend to be much more colorful. Its one of the ways they help attract a mate.Also there's a difference between absolutes vs general statements. An absolute would be me saying "Women never ever ever get rejected at all". A general statement would be me saying "Women are the ones that choose, not men". The only time it really becomes absolute is if I insert the words 'always' or 'never' which I didn't do. Nuance exists and there's always an exception to the rule but an exception to the rule doesn't negate a general statement.
@Kkaos Yo're too stupid to waste my time on.
@Iron_Man200 and @Hunter7754 1. Why are you guys being bitches on here? ! Don't you have a conscience? !2. People can agree to disagree right? ! What about people's personal experiences? !3 If what you say is really true, then I could have basically chosen the guys I truly wanted when I was young! But that wasn't the case! At least not in my situation!4 I've actually approached guys in the past and flirted with them and got rejected! And I consider myself at least a 7/10! Think a fatter and "uglier" version of Goo Hara! 5 You guy are just trying to turn your argument around to make your answer make more sense!
guys I mean!
Personal experience doesn't trump observed reality and things that are backed up by biology/anthropology.We do not base general conclusions off of exceptions. Exceptions are just that, they're exceptions to the rule. They do not negate the general rule though.
@Hunter7754 I have clearly established that a man chooses who he intends to approach. That is not an illusion nor have you made an attempt to explain how it is an illusion. Saying men don't have a choice, is not the same as saying women have more options. Maybe you and this "Iron_Man200" specimen consider yourselves to be incredibly unattractive and are ready and waiting for any woman who "chooses" you. However I've never met a man that had zero standards and I've never met a man who did not make a conscious decision to be with a woman.
@Iron_Man200 Haha. Yep. So you started it, I dictate simple facts and now pull out with another baseless insult because you can't even string 2 brain cells together and actually explain what I've said that is not correct. You're an embarrassment.
@Kkaos Choosing who to approach is not the same as choosing someone because in the end, the woman has the final say. Therefore she is the one that makes the final choice, thus she is the one that chooses the man.You might have a point if women asking out men was the norm. But it's not. Women expect men to make the first move and much of the legwork regarding dating."Maybe you and this "Iron_Man200" specimen consider yourselves to be incredibly unattractive and are ready and waiting for any woman who "chooses" you. "The women I have dated CHOSE me, not the other way around. I expressed interest, and they accepted my invitation hence, they CHOSE me. When it comes to dating, the guy sends a hypothetical invitation to the woman. She can choose to accept or reject the offer. She is making a choice. So in that regard, women choose men, not the other way around.I dont really see us changing each other's mind anytime soon so I'll just agree to disagree with you friend.
@Hunter7754 Yes, you expressed interest because you chose her :) She might have the final say, but she's only in the position to make a choice once you've made a choice. Relationships are mutual man. Just like marriage. If I choose to marry a woman, I will then ask her and she chooses yes or no. Either way I think we agree with the same points, it's just what defines "choice" that's differing. But it doesn't really matter.
Stupid ass clown
Yeah, a scant few but, in general, a girl just has to be available to a guy and she can pretty much have her pick! If a guy is likewise, most girls will ignore him or completely blow him off!!
Most likely suffers from attitude problems on the inside how he perceives himself and others.
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Yet when such a women is more sexually promiscuous, are the more successful and better looking men going to choose to marry the more sexually promiscuous or less sexually promiscuous? I feel like women tend to waste their younger years with more beauty sleeping around then wonder why in their 30s or 40s that they cannot find a good man. That's because good women especially tend to marry young and successful men tend to look for the younger women.
Stop flattering yourself. Men aren't that shallow. And stop glorifying those bi--gay fuckboys.
You’re merely average looking. Possessing a bachelors is not that impressive. The arrogance you have is really unattractive. Your bio says naturally intelligent lol. I work in the engineering field, and even my coworkers don’t talk the way you do. It seems like you’re overcompensating.
@TonyBologna25 I can see honesty is has really offended u. But my answer is based on where I'm from. I'm not saying all men are like that. I live on an island and the population here is is even equivalent to 1% of the world's population. Whoever tale offence... guess what... that's your problem. Like I said that's just where I'm from
I’m not offended by you lol
@toastgoblins why do young men dont marry?
“Women aren’t normallyninto sec that much.” I’m not sure about that one and feelnit needs clarification I know women who want arc more often than their partners. They just generally want it often with one guy, not every guy they see.
*normally into sex*
@RaindropSparkle if that's true then let's meet up and put it test
No disagree only male whores fuck every pussy
Nice to meet you too!
The thing is, women have to be concerned with getting pregnant so, they HAVE to be a bit careful who they fuck, unless they just don't care! But, men are ALWAYS horny and don't exactly have to worry about pregnancy so, they just drop a load into her and run and never see her again. Two of my ex-guitarists were great for that!!! Have dick: will travel!! Any pussy in a storm!!
Because I've come across many attractive men throughout my life who still struggled to get laid. Doesn't matter how good looking a man is, if he's shy and lacks confidence, he's gonna have a hard time getting laid. Whereas women, even average looking women, can easily get laid.
Attractiveness depends on the person, however most people find confidence a main factor in attractiveness. It's fine if you don't agree but don't act like attractive men can't get laid when they can. Someone attractive is going to obviously have a better chance than an unattractive person.
I never said attractive men can't get laid. You're another woman that has completely twisted what I said. Let me repeated myself. The point I'm making is that it's much easier for women, in general, to get laid than it is for men to get laid.
Confidence really only matters to women. Men dont care about things like social status, charisma, etc.
@Hunter7754 I've never understood that. Even good looking men will usually get rejected if they lack confidence, but a unattractive man will often get the woman if he's confidence. But as a man I couldn't give a fuck if a woman is confident. If I find her physically attractive I'm going to be interested.
Thing is most women either don't have the confidence to make a move themselves or they simply choose not to because of their ego. That's why the not so confident attractive man would fail in many cases. Although every now and then you'll get confident women who approach, but that's rare unless the man is a celebrity, in which case he's probably confident already so it doesn't matter.
One way to know for sure.
it is true. Chris Hemsworth won't fuck you but that doesn't mean you can't fantasize fucking him. so here are two pictures for you to have fun with
It's funny all you idiots in here seriously think you have a Psychology Degree and shit like you know what you are talking about.
Ah, but women are hotter than men on average.
You dont think women hold a higher standard for social skills/confidents? You dont think men have to prove that a little? While on the other hand, men dont need women to prove anything but that they need him in bed now?
@User_Friendly Please don't argue I just wanted to tell a joke.
@Boppy sorry m8, i was replying to alpha09
I got that. It's just I've been getting notifications from other people arguing in an answers I commented on, and didn't want to delete my comment to avoid. Sorry, I probably jumped the gun on this one.
But you also gotta be attracted to her
Yes something is wrong if he is passing you completely by for other women. Sorry that happened to you. It is probably a good idea to choose a more comitted man.
It's always your exact age group with all the greviences of men. Endless...
Entirely not true. I've had many chances to in the past and did not. If I'm not genuinely attracted to someone both physically and emotionally, then I can't do it. Fucking anything with a pussy? Lol... not all of us have trash standards.
isn't it sexist?
True it's like 22/7
More than you probably realize. only that females rarely talks about it since it is damaging thing to do.
Okay but, you're talking about a SPECIFIC guy! I'm pretty sure coach means, if you were in a room full of guys you could take pretty much any one you wanted!
I could, but the question is would I want them? It’s like buying a new car and none of the models on the dealers lot interests you, so you either settle or wait. I’m just as patient to wait for what I want.
So why can’t guys wait too?
I think the model being pushed is that women have so many options they can wait around for one they like, but guys will have far fewer options, so don't get to think about their own feelings as much.(I somewhat agree, personally I've only been asked out around 4 times (2 were guys though) but I'm still holding off until I find someone I like and who likes me back.)
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Yeah, me, too.
Pretty amusing how that really works 😂