Do guys prefer to lead during sex or would they love girls to be on top of them?

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ShortCircuit · Accepted Answer

Dominance/submission has more to do with attitude than sex position. Just because a girl is on top, it doesn't necessarily mean she's dominating the man. Depending on how rough or gentle she was, body language, her choice of words, tone of voice, etc. it could also be construed as "she is serving her dominant man while he lays back and enjoys himself".

I think precisely that would be ideal for me. I am not submissive, and I don't like dominant women. Huge turn off. I'd just refuse to play into that role. However, (though I'm not speaking from experience), I suspect that I would enjoy girl-on-top positions the most, merely because they'd require the least effort from me.

SuperManiac · Accepted Answer

Imagine it'd vary per guy. I don't like being lead around personally. I prefer to undress the girl, not the other way around if that makes any sense. It's like if someone is seducing someone, I want to be the one seducing the woman, not the other way around.

When I was a teenager I didn't mind being seduced because I was so inexperienced and figuring things out and it helped to be with a confident girl for my first time who knew what she wanted and showed me the way, but it's like once I figured things out, and about myself, I found myself so much more comfortable taking the lead -- of course always with care to make sure she's happy following it.