Why am I never good enough?

My ex boyfriend could never get his penis up, never. it stayed hard for a few minutes but then got soft so we never did the deed. did I do something wrong? he said he jacked off earlier that day but I hear guys can pop a boner a lot in a day. I knew he wasn't attracted to me.. :/ I'm glad I didn't loose my virginity to him tho, he is a jerk.. and was addicted to porn. We've tried 3 times and he goes soft every time. Why? He was the one that wanted to do it too.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • He is probably addicted to porn.
    When a man watches too much porn (and I mean a lot!), the brain gets used to that type of stimulation and foes not react properly anymore when engaging in real intercourse.

  • Because he was addicted to porn and had a issue himself if you already know this why do you think it's your fault stop being silly and over thinking

    • Because I felt like maybe he wasn't attracted to me. He blamed it on jacking off earlier that day, but a guy told me that guys can get multiple boners a day. So yeah I don't know. It sucks.

    • But he was a jerk so that irrelavent also yes it's possible he was not attracted to you but that would be your fault

    • It would be my fault he wasn't attracted to me?

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Sounds like he has erectile disfunction. It happens

    • It happened all the time with us.

    • Like I said, it happens. Usually it’s a genetic issue, nothing to do with the partner. I had to use a cock ring on him so he could keep his boner even when his erection went away.

    • But he could jack off to porn? My boyfriend jacked off all the time to porn.

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  • Sounds like he is just anxious or not good with it

  • Masturbating isn't any excuse I can only think he wasn't Interested if he couldn't get hard, I have never failed to sex is just the best lol

  • Its the porn addiction