Why is femdom now more popular than traditional BDSM?

So many blogs are scrubbed from Google search, but many femdom blogs are still there. Almost all the freely available information is gone.
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  • It could just be a coincidence. Or... hold on just a second while I put on my tinfoil hat... It could be down to the fact that there's a gender war and there's an agenda to emasculate men. Male dominant/female submissive goes against that agenda. Femdom supports it.

    A strange thing you'll notice on this site is the number of women who seem to be pushing for this. In the BDSM community it's hard for male submissives to find genuine dominant women because very few women are sexually dominant, because it goes against their sexual nature. But now you're seeing more and more women trying to encourage that. Just watch and you'll see.

    Even if not completely intentional, perhaps those who do target and scrub those websites are liberal types who tend to see male dominance as bad and just tend to take issue with that more. It all comes from the same "male dominance = bad, female dominance - great" idea anyway.

    • There are websites like 'all men are slaves' however, dominant males in the BDSM community would not try to make a female equivalent of such a site. Femdom is fundamentally different from traditional BDSM.

    • It is. The thing is most of those blogs are run by men, not women. Many of the men who are into being submissive seem to be so much more weird and obsessive about it than male dominants. I think for many of them they're into it because they're so weird actually. Most of them are incels. They view women as being above them because women look down on them.

  • I don't agree with your premise.

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  • There's a difference?

  • Because its so sexy

  • It's the natural order. Women should be in charge.

  • Guys are turning weaker.

    • Oh, I like you!