During sexual relations, do you ever lose control of your body's movements?

I'm not referring to "losing control" as in, an "I couldn't help myself" excuse for rape, or anything like that.
By "losing control of body's movements" I'm referring to, for example, you can't help but grip things, scratch things, pull hair, nearly fall off the bed, etc. This is a spin-off of my related poll: Do you lose control of your bodily movements during masturbation?
During sexual relations, do you ever lose control of your bodys movements?
I've never engaged in sexual relations
Vote A
I've engaged in sexual relations, but never lost control of my body's movements in the process
Vote B
I lose control of bodily movements only during orgasm
Vote C
I lose control of bodily movements leading up to orgasm, but not during orgasm
Vote D
I lose control of bodily movements both leading up to orgasm & during orgasm
Vote E
I lose control of bodily movements throughout sexual relations (both before pre-orgasm, during pre-orgasm, and during orgasm)
Vote F
I lose control of bodily movements throughout sexual relations, except during orgasm itself
Vote G
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  • Unquestionably, the closer I get to orgasm, the more I lose control of my body. Partly that is just simple male physiology and partly a reflection of the intensity of the sex.

    In the first aspect, the human male tends to lose control of his body naturally. Heavier breathing, muscle spasms as the male's thrusting intensifies. These are spontaneous aspects of human male physiology and there arrives a moment when a male cannot control himself. He must ejaculate and he has no control. It is brief, but not lest real for that. (Indeed, sex is actually somewhat hard on the male body. Less so for the female, since a female body under stress would have less success conceiving a baby.)

    The other aspect is more emotional. Here I digress to a personal story. One time my girlfriend and I were - ahem - well, you know. Our little son, then age 4, woke up and caught us - not expecting him to be awake we had not shut the door.

    Anyhow, it was intense. I had mounted my girlfriend and was f*****g her doggie-style and the thrusting was intense when all of a sudden I heard my girlfriend gasp, "(Son's name) is watching!!"

    So there we were, both completely naked, me on top of mommy, pumping hard and sweating and our son standing there watching wide eyed. What I wanted to do was stop and sweep him up and put him back in his bed but I couldn't. All I could do was keep humping harder and faster and - as my girlfriend now jokes - my penis was in total control. I literally could not stop until my orgasm.

    Then I got off my girlfriend, wobbly legged and unsteady and staggered over to him and picked him up and put him back to bed - mumbling something about mommy and daddy were wrestling. Not our shining moment as parents.

    Suffice to say, if maybe the sex had been less intense or at an earlier stage, I might have been able to stop. However, in that moment, whatever my head was telling me my naked body wanted sex and that was all that mattered. I was basically a slave to my biological instincts.

    Within that, as I say, there was heavy breathing, muscle spasms, the thrusting becomes involuntary. If you read it, at one level, it sounds like a heart attack. Yet it feels so good and evolution has so programmed males that the instinct to reproduce, in the moment, with all the feelings of love and connection and raw animal need, just takes over everything.

    So long answer to short question - Yes.

  • During orgasm my hips and groin thrust. It happens reflexively as I orgasm and I can't control it. The reflex drives my penis deep into the vagina. Also when I trip over the edge and start orgasming I lose control of my genitals, my penis pulsates rapidly and I ejaculate, there's no way to stop it.

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  • I do not have the personal experience to answer this question.

    Now, I don't watch any lewd movies or pictures (except those shown here on GAG) but I read from a number of sexually active people here on GAG too that they arch their backs, scratch their partner (s), scream, bite, moan and a number of other less appetizing adjectives.

    Also, It seems a habit for those same people to curl their toes, grasp the sheets, roll their eyes and curse/swear while copulating or fornicating.

    Based on those observations, I would agree that people in that state totally lose control of themselves, their body movements and coordination. To what extend this is healthy is questionable. I can also imagine that the heartbeat goes into very dangerous levels.

  • Yup. Apparently me digging my nails into my boyfriends back is the first sign that I’m getting close. Followed by my pulling his head/back down towards me. Usually my legs will be wrapped around him too so I can imagine him feeling a bit overwhelmed. 😜

    • Why are you showing off your body? Are you proud of its shape?

    • Showing off my body.. not sure what you mean by that

    • @marish01 if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all

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  • Oh I do, since I have strong orgasms so I tend to get spasms and my body tends to twitch and move uncontrollably. I tend to grab and hold the bed sheets like it's my my lifeline haha :D

  • Sex doesn't cause loss of physical control it causes loss of mental control. When close to orgasm people will lose inhibitions and do things that they'd never do.

  • Not always, but often. Body spasms just before and during climax. Kind of like sharp, involuntary stomach/pelvic crunches when thrusting. They can wrack the entire body, especially when cumming.

  • I'm going to put it very simply my Orgasms have been so intense that I have actually temporarily blacked out my ex girlfriend thought I was having a seizure but she came out with a pretty good orgasm herself I did kinda black out on top of her
    😎😎😎

  • I don't. But I do love when I'm masturbating a girl and she totally loses control and pumps her hips as she's having an orgasm

  • Yeah I used to bite my boyfriends shoulder, 😅 I would also dig my nails into him - I’m controlling myself now, because it was hurting to much.

    I also get really shaky legs after an orgasm...

  • Yup. Quite often actually

  • Yes when I'm being more primal and or during a particularly enjoyable climax.

    • Did you vote?

    • I did now

  • It's not often, but I have felt myself losing consciousness during orgasm

  • I don't but my girlfriend does, when she climaxes and I keep going she sometimes roles her eyes back, and arches her back, to which I say "✝️ the power of Christ compells you state your name demon!✝️"

    • 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • When I begin to cum in her, my hips no longer respond to what I want them to do and kind of convulse erratically on their own.

  • Oh, that happens a lot, body spasms.

    • I usually lose control of my legs and end up shoving my whole dick in and busting my load... it's a crazy feeling.

    • Makes pulling out kinda hard.

  • Yes.

  • I only lose control of my dick's movements when it's ejaculating.

    • Mine thinks its a ostrich

  • Lol like farting ir something 😂😂😂?

    • "By "losing control of body's movements" I'm referring to, for example, you can't help but grip things, scratch things, pull hair, nearly fall off the bed, etc"

    • 😂 nearly falling of bed, that happens to me without sex

  • Technically yes, practically no. Occasionally my leg will like twitch or jerk slightly. Also I damn near fall over whenever I orgasm while standing up. Its like my brain can't focus on anything exceptionally the orgasm for a split second and I start toppling over but then my brain remembers I need to balance lol. I'm not an idiot, I swear.

  • Uhm.. Yea I get carried away but I'm Always in control of myself, I do my best not to her the girl as I know my strengths. Unless she requests it...
    (muhuhuhuhuhahahhahahahahaha) 🤡👑🤣

  • Yeah, if the orgasm is very intense

  • I hate it when those refers to me as an animal because I am a beast, this roles off the tongue easier and opens up for deep lungs.

  • I loss control

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