I’d like her have some level of sadism and masochism in turn bedroom, but nothing too extreme. If anything, I’d like her to be more towards the masochistic side as opposed to sadistic side even though I do enjoy a role-reversal with the woman being the dominator and the man being the submissive. I personally like handling my women in a more rough manner during sex, which includes choking, slapping, hair pulling, throwing around, etc. Now, perhaps I have to clarify and say that when I mean “choking” I don’t mean anything that will turn her face blue and she’ll have trouble talking or breathing. When I mean “choking” is having my hands around her throat and applying light pressure, so she’ll be able to breathe and talk. I don’t know what else this would be called so that’s why I use the word “choking.” Also, when I say “throwing around” I don’t mean I’m slamming her against the floor or walls, rather, just tossing her from one point of the bed to the other. When I say “slapping” I don’t mean full force, 100% effort slap across face either, nor do I mean tug of war or yanking when I say “hair pulling.” Basically, the most benign forms of these actions is what I mean, so that it can be enjoyed by the widest array of women. Now, if a woman wants me to go harder on her then I’ll oblige but only up to a certain point and certain things I wouldn’t be comfortable going harder on such as choking.
While I'm only rarely into physical pain, and don't want much when I am-- she should be KIND of a PSYCHOLOGICAL sadist. But not a harsh one-- more like a low level teasing brat who is constant, relentless, wears me down-- then manipulates me once I'm too exhausted to care anymore.
I like it when the guy is dominant, but I don’t know about sadistic. I want to be controlled, but not so much actually hurt (little things are fine though, like hair pulling & spanking)
My fiancé is already sadistic while I'm masochistic. And that's how I prefer it lol I prefer receiving pain than inflicting it.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!my experience shows that most people want an aggressive and experimental lover, but not necessarily one that wants to cause pain or have pain caused to them... bondage may be a better option than sadomasochism, for most people
Both please
My simple opinion is want to be both so I would prefer that my partner be both
I'd prefer sadistic.
Well, honestly
... It's so much more passionate
i just dont really care. one time i was making out with a girl in bed and she just hauled off and punched me in the face. i was totally confused, because she didn't seem angry and we were drinkng whiskey, not gin (girls seem to punch me after drinking gin...) so, i punched her back.
this continued for a while... i wasn't really into it, but it was kind of fun. after that we would always meet up before physics class and punch each other in the arm for 15 minutes... until we were good and bruised.
it was kind of nice to notice the bruise throughout the day... like awww she punched me there. haha.
i was just doing it cause she liked it tho
Hopefully more women come to vote. I predict men prefer women to be masochistic while women prefer men to be more sadistic.
Neither. But if I had to pick I'd prefer they be masochistic. I don't mind inflicting pain if it arouses her, but I myself am not aroused by it.
Both.
I like the idea of a sexually dominant woman, but I'd probably want her to switch up a bit too, if I had a partner, lol.
I would prefer my partner to be neither. I'm not interested in sadomasochism. However I would try it if my partner wanted
I say this, I'd prefer not to but if she really wanted to I'd do it for her
I voted that I would prefer my partner be neither and that I'm not interested in SM. However I would try some very mild play of that nature if my partner wanted. But nothing harsh or extreme.
I voted B, though a flicker of D can be fun.
I'd prefer she be more into the psychological side, with a minor touch of the physical, than vice versa.
Both but leans on sadistic😈😈
Definitely sexually sadistic
I definitely want my girlfriend to be masochistic. It's really hot thinking of choking her a little, spanking hard, tying her up, forcing her to deep throat until she gags, etc.
I find I can never let loose like I really want to in fear that I'll hurt the girl, but those thoughts definitely turn me on.
I would prefer my partner to have sex like normal human beings.
How about a little bit of each?
a bit of both but mainly masochistic
Neither, I'm not into BDSM stuff
My fiancée loves making me her bitch, she loves chaining me up hehe
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