What classifies someone as a slut?

Question

I’d like to think I’m a nice and intelligent women. However, I’m the type of girl who would every now and then find a fun guy in a club who takes me back to his or I would give them blowjobs in the bathroom.

On a night out I like wearing I guess people would call ‘skimpy’ outfits. But it’s because I like it not to get men’s attention.

So, am I a slut?

Yes

No

Select age and gender to cast your vote:

GirlGuy

Answer 1

zenbullet

Xper 4

Yeah I mean sure, a sex addict qualifies I guess in the negative connotation of the word, but it's compulsive behavior, that's illness and maybe shouldn't be shamed but given encouragement to get treatment

Remember slut is a term invented to control women and shame them, originally ANY SEX OUT OF WEDLOCK made you a slut doesn't matter how long you known them before you did it

Doesn't that make it seem stupid to worry about that when you think about it that way?

Oh you had consentual sex with someone and hopefully you both enjoyed it? Sounds like you live in a modern world with more enlightened opinions than an Iron Age goatherder who literally bought his wives

Remember until very recently women lost value once their hymen was broken, kinda like an iPhone dropped in water voids it's warranty, you aren't a fucking phone

Answer 2

normalice | 5.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

There are two kinds of sluts

1) those who have lots of sex because they like sex. These are the "good" sluts

2) those who don't really like sex but do it all the time anyway for attention. These are the "annoying" sluts.

Of course, most girls who claim to be sluts are some combination of the two. You seem mostly to fall in the first category, if any..

Answer 3

daisycarraway

Xper 4

for me, the only way someone can be a slut is if they knowingly and regularly sleep with men in relationships or choose to ruin people's relationship, especially if they know the person. But even then the guy would be the worse one

Answer 4

pinkfoxla

Xper 5

hey a girl just wants to have fun and flaunt her sexy self from time to time or maybe even on the daily , your fine
own it ! enjoy all life little pleasures

Answer 5

AustinMan | 38.4K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Influencer

I believe that you're just a healthy young woman. However, I don't believe that you were provocative outfits just because you like them. You wear them to attract the men you want to meet.

Answer 6

0112358 | 12.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

Of course. Otherwise the word has no meaning and your question wouldn’t make sense.
that doesn’t make you worthless as a person but to the extent slut is a term, it describes someone who exhibits this behaviour.

Answer 7

toastygoblins

Xper 2

Giving blow jobs to random multiple men then yes. That doesn't mean you'll always be that way. Hopefully you can find a comitted relationship without getting an incurable disease.

Answer 8

RohitLakra | 554 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Explorer

What the formal definition describes slut as: a woman who provides sex in exchange for money.
Today we call all women a slut who happen to have multiple sex partners. You have described yourself along this line so yes you can be called a slut.

RohitLakra

10 mo
I don't know if guys can be called sluts too because traditionally that term is primarily used for women.

Answer 9

RohitLakra

I don't know if guys can be called sluts too because traditionally that term is primarily used for women.

Answer 10

Browneye57 | 7.3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

Fur shur tootsie. ;)

Cum-dumpster
cock-holster
meat-sandwich
spermbank

And you though this would snag you a high-value quality man, right?

Answer 11

slatyb | 5.8K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

Slut is just a word guys use for women have sex with other guys but not them, or women use for the woman a guy chooses instead of them.

Answer 12

KashNickels

Xper 2

There is a book that contains definitions of words called a dictionary. So I think you mostly wanna get some sort of emotional satisfaction. I wonder if after everyone comments and it’s ruled you are a slut, would you accept it? Vice Vera

KashNickels

10 mo
What are these instances society and real life don’t match up?
KashNickels

10 mo
Making a personal attack upon me definitely furthers my idea of you unable to accept whatever the outcome of is.
Asker

10 mo
im fine being a slut or not a slut, I’m just asking people what they think. I don’t think being a slut is necessarily a bad thing, it’s not hurting anyone.

Answer 13

KashNickels

What are these instances society and real life don’t match up?

Answer 14

KashNickels

Making a personal attack upon me definitely furthers my idea of you unable to accept whatever the outcome of is.

Answer 15

Asker

im fine being a slut or not a slut, I’m just asking people what they think. I don’t think being a slut is necessarily a bad thing, it’s not hurting anyone.

Answer 16

Berethor | 9.4K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Giving blowjobs to random guys classifies you as a slut more than what you wear.

Answer 17

InfobotsMom

Yoda

If your vagina has made more appearances to more people than Lady Gaga then you're a slut.

Answer 18

gym4ever | 704 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

going out and finding new guy everytime to give him blowjob is called SLUT.
If thats not slut then going in club and flirting with 10girls in same time and fucking them is not fuckboy.

Answer 19

devil_8888 | 1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

It means you find guys every now and then to fuck around. You can’t stay in a long relationship with one guy. Mostly you indulge in one night stands. That’s make you a slut...

Currently as per your context, it makes you a slut if you give blowjobs to random guys in the club...

Answer 20

winterfox10 | 5.8K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

Yeah, that would qualify you as a Slut, but I don't know how big of a deal that really is.

Answer 21

TonyBologna25

Yoda

You’re a slut if you have promiscuous sex with a lot of men.

Answer 22

CubaPirate | 9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

It's just chauvinistic Male attitude towards sexually liberated women that and their double standards that pigeon hole them

Answer 23

Anonymous

If its not every night or every other day and its just fun then no lol

Answer 24

Nigjt | 1.6K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 7

I don't think so but then it depends on where u do that kind of thing at

Answer 25

jpezee | 59 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 3

That's just how u enjoy yourself on nite out! My definition of a slut is one who does it for a profit of some kind

toastygoblins

10 mo
That would be a prostitute
jpezee

10 mo
/ slut

Answer 26

toastygoblins

That would be a prostitute

Answer 27

jpezee

/ slut

Answer 28

Anonymous

Most people would say yes. I dont think you are, though.

Answer 29

TacosRAwesome | 3.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

They sleep around and piss me off. If you sleep around and I like you you're sexually liberated, if you piss me off you're a slut.

Answer 30

lewisvenable | 145 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

why give guys blowjobs if they're not gonna reciprocate?

Asker

10 mo
who says they aren’t reciprocating? and girls can enjoy giving blowjobs as well
lewisvenable

10 mo
I enjoy the idea of giving blowjobs, but when I get a boyfriend I'm not gonna just suck his dick every day and not expect him to reciprocate some of my sexual fantasies (assuming he's the top and he's asking for blowjobs)
Asker

10 mo
He can do yours and you can do his at the same time

Answer 31

Asker

who says they aren’t reciprocating? and girls can enjoy giving blowjobs as well

Answer 32

lewisvenable

I enjoy the idea of giving blowjobs, but when I get a boyfriend I'm not gonna just suck his dick every day and not expect him to reciprocate some of my sexual fantasies (assuming he's the top and he's asking for blowjobs)

Answer 33

Asker

He can do yours and you can do his at the same time

Answer 34

Exorcist_Rampage

Yoda

Anybody who has sex outside of marriage is a classical slut and perhaps a spiritual slut. Not sure about natural slut but think that they are that too.

Answer 35

caddieman41

Xper 1

A sluts is a chick that fucks sucks and rubs nuts for any guy she can do she fucks just because, she'll do a guy she can't stand in looks or personalites. Just to fuck him thinking she cool