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#Survey Answer the 4 scenarios below regarding “How long can you wait for sex”?

Scenario 1: You’ve just begun dating a week ago and your partner reveals they want to wait til marriage. How long do you go without sex before you’re tempted to cheat OR ready to call it quits?

Scenario 2: You and your partner had lots of sex but are now engaged and they say they want to wait til marriage now before having anymore sex. The wedding is possibly a year after engagement. How long do you last before tempted to cheat or ready to call it quits?

Scenario 3: You’ve been married for a year and have banged nearly everyday. But your partner is feeling depressed and wants to take a break for an unknown period of time (weeks +). You’re so used to getting sex now but must stop all a sudden. How long do you last before tempted to cheat or ready to call it quits?

Scenario 4: After years of trying to fix it, You and your partner finally accept that your are no longer sexually compatible. At the moment you’re going through separation but are not yet divorced. How long do you last before tempted to cheat (since you're still legally married)?

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1. Im very bad at seducing but i’d try to wait til theyre ready 2. I tried and that didn't exactly work 😂 We were kinda backwards and waited til engagement then didn't wanna wait til marriage 3. I need at least a helping hand... well two fingers 😂 If not that, then i need a kid to wanna stay distracted. If no kids either then im out after a year 4. We’re still legally married so i wouldn't until the divorce is finalized
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  • Scenario 1: You’ve just begun dating a week ago and your partner reveals they want to wait til marriage. How long do you go without sex before you’re tempted to cheat OR ready to call it quits? * i honestly have no idea, but i wanted to get to know my first girlfriend before giving her my virginity, she dumped me in less than a month.

    Scenario 2: You and your partner had lots of sex but are now engaged and they say they want to wait til marriage now before having anymore sex. The wedding is possibly a year after engagement. How long do you last before tempted to cheat or ready to call it quits?

    Scenario 3: You’ve been married for a year and have banged nearly everyday. But your partner is feeling depressed and wants to take a break for an unknown period of time (weeks +). You’re so used to getting sex now but must stop all a sudden. How long do you last before tempted to cheat or ready to call it quits?

    Scenario 4: After years of trying to fix it, You and your partner finally accept that your are no longer sexually compatible. At the moment you’re going through separation but are not yet divorced. How long do you last before tempted to cheat (since you're still legally married)?

  • Scenario 1 : I'd wait till they're ready. As I spend more time with them, I'd know if I actually like spending time with that person and if that is the case then I wouldn't mind waiting, else I'll just be honest with them and quit the relationship.

    Scenario 2 : So if I'm engaged with a person, I probably like them a lot and if that is the case, sex is secondary, it is their company I actually enjoy. I wouldn't mind waiting at all. I'd probably just masturbate if I have to.

    Scenario 3 : it'd definitely be hard but same reason as scenario 2. Also, if my partner is depressed, my sexual life won't be the first thing that comes to my mind. I'd probably try to spend more time talking to them and helping them get through it.

    Scenario 4 : So I personally won't consider it as cheating even if someone does sleep with someone else in that scenario but I probably would have my issues to deal with and if I had any love or respect for my partner in the first place, I wouldn't personally go out looking for sex right after.

    • #4 yea I don't know how people jump in with smeone else so quick

Most Helpful Girls

  • 1. I can wait til marriage.
    2. I can wait til marriage.
    3. I'll try to be as understanding as possible. I can wait until they're ready again, as long as they're trying to get better.
    4. I can wait til we're divorced.

    • Do u feel separation since technically still married is cheating

    • It's all technicalities. Depends on how long the separation has been and what the status on the divorce is. Like is paperwork actually being filed? Are there lawyers involved? Or did y'all just say oh, we're separated? It depends.

  • 1. Till they’re ready

    2. A year

    3. Till they’re ready again

    4. If you’ve filed for divorce it’s not cheating

    • Its cheating to me if you're separated but not yet divorced

    • I understand

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  • 28 years...

    #Survey Answer the 4 scenarios below regarding “How long can you wait for sex”?#Survey Answer the 4 scenarios below regarding “How long can you wait for sex”?

    • Love this

  • iv been waiting for 28 years so i think it would be worth the wait in all scenarios, yeah i might be getting sex then but if they want to wait i gt 28 years of not having sex to keep me in check. im an oak tree.

  • For 1 I need cuddles and for the rest I have a high sex drive that feels like a need so depends never tested it

  • If she accepted my proposal I would wait for her as long as I had to called masturbation and just to be honest here you don't need to have vaginal sex or anal sex to enjoy sexuality with each other there's various other ways so I don't know actually I would probably say all three to but in all things relationship related respect and honesty are the two most important keys so guess that's my opinion

  • Great question

    1. Realistically I should break up with this girl on the spot. I have a two and a half year minimum, before I pop the question, that's just too long.

    2. I could wait a year, no big deal, but I would find it odd. Very odd

    3. I would be tired of having sex every day, I could use the break too. If my partner is depressed, then she needs my support.

    4. If this is my life, it could go in many different directions. If we have kids, I'll be too focused on them to think about "cheating". If we don't have kids, I might hang myself. Otherwise, I'm probably looking at other women already, and I wouldn't consider it cheating at that point. I don't believe in divorce, so if that's where I end up... Wish me luck.

    • I didn't believe in divorce either til i came up with scenario 4 😂 but suicide? Oh no

  • 1 . i am religious having sex before marriage is not possible for me. so it is opposite for me
    2. same again not applicable for me.
    3 . would not be a problem. i would not cheat
    4 . same ans would not cheat

    • Thats good

  • Scenario 1: If that means no hand play and oral, it's a non-starter.
    Scenario 2: If she expected that, it would reflect future problems in the marriage. I'd cancel the engagement and move on.
    Scenario 3: I would seek counseling before deciding anything.
    Scenario 4: I would never "separate". If it came to this, it would be divorce.

    • #1 you can still do that #4 i always wondered if u could go straight to divorce instead of separation

    • If it were an "everything but intercourse" situation, I could work with it. Separations do not bring you closer. You work together. If it comes to that, pull the plug.

  • In the first two, you leave before you get serious. The third you give them space and try and work it out, no cheating. Masturbation will be fine for a few years. Last one... Your seperated, it's not cheating, the moment you agree that your done all is fair game.

    • Separated and divorced dont feel like the same tho

  • I know, I'm wordy. I've been there before. For some of these. I would never force someone to have sex, but I couldn't stay in a relationship where my needs aren't being met.

    1. Been there. I'm going to be honest with them: I personally respect their wishes but I also think confirming sexual compatibility is very important in a long term relationship. 1 month and then I would break up if there's been no conversation about it. We don't know each other well either so...
    2. Again I respect that but at the same time we are supposed to be a team and consider one another. If she knows how important sex is in the relationship, and that it affects me more than herself on average. I would feel that it's inconsiderate toward me and the relationship to do so suddenly but it's their decision so... If there's no help at all just a DROP off of all sex for basically no reason, 4-6 months and then I'll leave.
    3. They're depressed. Let them have their space, be understanding, they're a human being with a common chemical imbalance. But after 2 or 3 months or so, sex aside, they should consider medication. If they refuse to take care of themselves and the relationship however, I can't do it all myself. 6-8 months. Then we have the talk
    4. Talk about mutual sexual activities that might work out. Maybe bring in a 3rd party that is compatible with both to bridge the gap? I'm pretty open to new things.

    • #1 i understand #2 yea i prob wouldn't have sex til after 6 months anyway #4 lmao no not a 3rd party 😂

    • It's hard to do what's best for you AND others in these situations lol So let's say we are in that 4th spot, what would you do?

    • All my answers are listed above in the update

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  • 1:Right then and there


    2:A month and a half


    3:A week


    4:Right then and there

    • Are you quitting or cheating?

    • Probably both Cheat then quit

    • Why not just quit

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  • First three scenarios:
    If its true love then I would honor her wishes and when it really got rough open a line of communication with her.
    In the fourth if it was truly over then I would have to put some serious thought into before it was final

    • I understand

  • I'm a virgin till now. So you can imagine how long!!! :)

  • #1– Waiting till marriage

    #2– Wait until marriage

    #3– I’ll masturbate in secret until she’s ready

    #4– Not until the divorce is final and I’ve been remarried and tested for any STDs.

    • #3 lol why in secret

    • Because I’ll be so used to sex, I’ll still need to satisfy myself. But it’ll have to be when she’s not home or I have to go to the bathroom in the middle of the night.

  • Scenario 1. If I connect with her on a level in which I never did with any women before - maybe. I'm pretty sure I'd I'll be willing to walk sex through with her.

    Scenario 2. Dont call it quits just push the date up.

    Scenario 3. I wouldn't be much of a person if I loved her enough to marry her then threw it all away just because she got depressed and wanted a break to figure things out.

    Scenario 4. I'm already cheating or trying to cheat. Relationship at that stage is now beyond repair

    • #2 😂 thats so me #4 lmao wow

  • Scenario 1: i go go without sex for ever i have yet to have sex yet

    Scenario 2: i would wait till marriage to have sex again

    Scenario 3: i would want to have sex till she is ready to have it again i would not cheat on her or call it quits with her

    Scenario 4: i'm not sure maybe a few months

    • how long do divorces take to finalize

    • @DizzyDesii online it says a divorce takes 12 months to complete

    • Oh damn i see why people cheating 😂

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  • 1. I'll wait till marriage
    2. I'm not gonna have sex with anyone but the one I marry... so this doesn't apply to me
    3. I don't mind actually... I could go for years XD... Sex isn't the most important thing to me
    4. Not gonna cheat. Get divorced. Get with someone else. Get married... Then maybe sex

    • Sounds good

  • #1 I'd say great me too, hope you like being a saint in the streets and a freak in the sheets.

  • Scenario 1 I wouldn't cheat. I would probably talk with her about it after a year.
    Scenario 2 I wouldn't cheat or quit. I wouldn't understand her logic.
    Scenario 3 I would try to support her emotionally. It would definitely suck but hey, sex should be fun but depressed.
    Scenario 4 I don't like cheating but I would try to do stuff she likes in bed for the "final days" before the divorce.

    • Awww such a gent :)

  • Looks like we breaking up

    • 😂😂😂

    • Lmaooo

  • 6 months
    6 months
    2 weeks
    1 week

    I would never cheat though. I would likely end things at these limits then seek someone else

    • Goad u won't cheat but lmao 1 week

    • Lol it said ur getting divorced anyway haha

    • But separation is not divorced

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